8/21/04 the more we find in each other

[bubblze30]

Today's thought is:

Change

A problem can ultimately bring us a gift.

We start our relationship in excitement, hope, and good feelings, with perhaps a measure of fear mixed in. Our history is yet to evolve. A beginning is more a time of romance than reality. But no lasting connection is built on a steady string of good times. Relationships deepen the way individuals do -- by meeting the hard times, not accepting defeat, and using difficulty to learn and grow. That is how a problem, something we do not want or choose in our lives, can ultimately bring us a gift.

One year the biggest problem a couple dealt with was illness, another year it was a financial pinch, and another year almost everything came easily. Each situation called for new responses from within, yet for the same spiritual attitude of living one day at a time. Looking back, they appreciate the richness of their lives together because they have risen above their problems, grown from them, and had many times of fun and pleasure. Their problems were hard but built their relationship.

[liveweyerd]

thank you, bubblze.

[2Sunshine]

Bubblze,

That was wonderful, thanks for sharing. I share those beliefs and have learned to appreciate going through the storms of life. I only wished that all were able to overcome them in such graceful manners. It is good to hear it expressed in the way that you have expressed it.

Thank you so much for the light that you brought in "today's thought".

Be blessed!

[wastedtime4me]

I tend to get bored once the romance wears off.thanks bubblze..i also enjoyed reading this..it really made me think!!!