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05-23-2004, 08:00 PM
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| Gold Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: It's raining again!
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| My Daughter is coming home!
Huray! My daughter just called me and her dad finally bought the dam plane tickets! For those who do not know, he kept saying she could come,but changed his mind... It's been a long year without her,but it was something we just had to do. She seems excited about coming home. We still do not know weather or not she wants to stay... He has plans for her continuing living with him,but If she wants to stay here, I'm not going to force her to go back,nor will I keep her here if she wants to go back. Anyway, I'm just so happy that I could cry. I don't play favorites with my kids,but she is the one I'v been though a lot with. She will be 14 tommorrow! Wow, I can't wait to see how much she has grown... Yahoo, good news for a change!!!
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05-24-2004, 05:50 AM
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Thank you guys! I'm a little nervose too! I don't want her comming home and going back to her old ways! It was horrible cleaning up her room when she left to find suiside notes and blood drawings! ~~~~~~~~~`shudder~~~~~~~ I don't know if I should bring it up or leave it alone. For now I'll leave it alone and pray we can have the happiest time!
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05-24-2004, 06:00 AM
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| Member  Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Kansas City,Mo
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Zoomer, Im so happy for you. Hope things go well.Try not to be nervous,if she is excited,then things will fall right into place. Leave the past,the past!Dont bring it up(I wouldnt)start a new!!!!! Move onward.................Praying for you and your daughter.You are so lucky! |
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05-24-2004, 06:49 AM
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Hi Zoom, I'm so happy for you. I know how hard it has been to not see your daughter for such a long time. About the negative stuff, why don't you just play it by ear and see how it goes. I hope you have the best time together. Love, Anna |
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05-24-2004, 07:26 AM
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TY again you guys... She said she will be flying in on the 16 of June, so I still have a little while to wait! I did tell her Dad I'd pay for half the ticket,so I guess I need to talk to him... I still get very upset when I have to talk to him! Once in a while we do hit it off (he is very sweet to me if his wife is not in ear shot.what a smooze...) But most of the time we fight. I'm not afraid of him,but I don't trust him and old feelings come up. I hadent the need to talk to him for many years,nor did he call here much to talk to his daughter,so this is all very difficult for me. Yes....... I get jelouse when he and his wife braggs about things,but I try not to show it. LOL, it's funny when we do something like get a new computer, fix our house then my daughter tells me a few weeks later that they are doing the same thing (not that I hit her up for information, I swear). It's all just too funny! I think though my daughter plays games and gets us both to compete.
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05-24-2004, 07:42 AM
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(((ZOOMER)) I am so happy for you and your daughter. Let the past remain there, and let the future remain a mystery, and just live in the beauty of today, now and when she comes home. Hugs Ann
__________________ Somewhere between the gator swamp and the Taj Mahal there is a path, it may be hidden, overgrown or may blend in with the other surroundings, but it is there, it's your path and it is calling you.~Frankly~  |
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05-24-2004, 07:48 AM
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| Meow!  Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
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|  Alright Zoomer!!! WoooHoooo! I am so excited for the both of you! It brought a small tear of happiness to my eyes! I can't wait to hear how things go! When will she be there???
__________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!"  ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~  |
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05-24-2004, 07:59 AM
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WOW Such good news Zoomer. What a reunion I am so happy. It will be great. You have so much catching up to do. I am happy to hear your good news. Keep us posted.
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05-24-2004, 08:54 AM
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I a really happy for you Zoomer.
__________________  I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR |
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05-24-2004, 09:15 AM
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Zoomie sister, That's the best news, thanks for your support girl, you so deserve to have your girl with you. Bizz Annie xx
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05-24-2004, 09:21 AM
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TY P and indigo, yessssssssssssssss my daughter and I both deserve this. She has been working so hard on trying to do the right thing. It has not been easy for her,but she came through with flying colors! I wish I could of never asked her Dad for help,but it seemed to work out! They both I do have to say are very much alike,but he is bigger and badder than her. I'm sure at times it was rough for them both,bet better him than me  |
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05-24-2004, 11:08 AM
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Zoomer I am dancing right along with dotcom. Great news there is nothing in the world as good as spending time with our children. I know you are excited about the visit. Love you Zoomer.
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05-24-2004, 06:22 PM
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Surpise surprise, I actully had a nice conversation with her Dad. I asked him how much the ticket was and he said don't worry about it. Hummmmm makes me wonder. Anyway, the big deal with him for her flying out at Christmas or any break was that she was going to fly alone. Now I find out that she is going to fly alone and like I told him before, she will have a stewardess as a baby sitter! Duh!!! It's perfectly safe for a 14 year old to fly alone with paid services from the air line! I think this trip will make her feel real grown up! I'm just too excited!!!
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05-24-2004, 06:55 PM
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That is great Zoom!!!!
__________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR |
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