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2stop · 04-09-2004, 02:57 PM

Oh my friends..what a day!
My ex femme fatale g/f has gotten ahold of my husbands cell phone and my home number and is calling. Told my husband.."it's your g/f" That psycho looney! She is insane...at one time she was just like a sister..I opened my home, my heart..and boy did we get hurt. She wants my daughter, my husband, my life. She has a fatal atraction to me that many have noticed. She has stared into my eyes and said I was her drug..she could not make it without me, she has put drugs in my food, tried forcing cocaine in me...she is insane..certifible...
Some financial and transportation problems have arisen today...God help me..and my dad is in the hospital with his heart..but he went with flu symptoms...he knows chest pain gets him morphine...he has done this before..it drives me nuts not knowing whether he is seriously ill..or drug seeking..
I feel crazy myself today..and agitated to no end. I am praying for wisdom..but I don't think it is God saying...RUN LIKE H***!!
:banger

Justme57 · 04-09-2004, 03:10 PM

Oh! my dear Tamster ! you poor girl! hang in there love, she sure sounds a sandwich short ofa picnic !

You are in my thoughts and prayers dear friend

BIG HUGX and LUV

Lee

**51anna** · 04-09-2004, 03:26 PM

Hang in there Tammie, With any luck she'll end up in a hospital where she can be helped. I hope things settle down for you and that you can relax a bit for the rest of the weekend.

Love, Anna

2stop · 04-09-2004, 04:07 PM

I checked my messages..she left one. I saved it. I will have to start keeping track of it all, in case she tries anything. She grew up on the streets on Houston, she is cruel and will do anything to get her way, make a scene, prove her point. I am going to go pray now, and calm myself down. The God I pray to is stronger than her. Hearing her voice has really troubled me. I cannot describe in words what she did she me and my family. But I will come thru this stronger than ever. It just has me abit shaken right now. I knew she wouldn't give up..but I prayed gainst hope that she would.

***indigo*** · 04-10-2004, 04:23 AM

2stop as soon as you get a couplemore messages or any proof for that matter get the law in she sounds like she really needs help!! take care and i'll be thinking of you and yours

Love Indigo xx

Here's a message for her!!

bubblze30 · 04-10-2004, 12:43 PM

Keep a journal of all she does. tape all phone calls and messages from her. Although they r not admisable in court they will hear them and help you to get a stay away order. Let her know you can not go on like this. You feel very uncomfortable with her and her behavior. This way you can tell the law you told her and let them hear how she talks to and about you. Just hang in there and you will be alright. She is in great need of help. Although the crazier you get the more you think your sane. So I dont see her seeking help. Do the best you can to just stay away from her.

As for your dad there is not much you can do. Lord knows we only get clean when we want or are ready. So pray for him as well. You are always in my prayers as well.\

ButterflyChaser · 04-10-2004, 09:50 PM

I agree with bubblxe!! make sure and tape or record any evidance you can get on her! remember her word against yours! My father always told/taught me C.Y.O.A =cover your own ass!
She sounds like a complete wacko!! was she attracted to you? or what! I will say a prayer for the wacko to stay away from ya'll! also for your dad! (((((((((((((((Tammy))))))))))))))))))

laurie6781 · 04-11-2004, 09:32 AM

Tammie, just like has been said, keep a record of everything, phone calls, messages left, actions she has taken!!!!!

This woman is STALKING YOU. I believe all the states have STALKING LAWS now, and to protect you and your family, it might be time to go ahead and call the police give them what you have, and what has transpired in the past, then every time she calls or drives by or does some other outlandish thing that feels even a teeny bit "threatening" to you and your family, call them again and report it. Most police departments today take STALKING very very seriously and by the time you have made your 3rd of 4th report will be looking to bring her in and arrest her. Once she is arrested, get a "restraining order" that can be served on her while she is still in jail. Then, even if she gets out on bail, the next phone call, or message left will be cause for immediate re-arrest.

The bringing in of the police and her possible detainment may be the impetus needed for her to get some serious professional help.

In the meantime, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Love and (((((to all))))),

04-09-2004, 02:57 PM	#1 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	Prayer, positive thoughts, anything... Oh my friends..what a day! My ex femme fatale g/f has gotten ahold of my husbands cell phone and my home number and is calling. Told my husband.."it's your g/f" That psycho looney! She is insane...at one time she was just like a sister..I opened my home, my heart..and boy did we get hurt. She wants my daughter, my husband, my life. She has a fatal atraction to me that many have noticed. She has stared into my eyes and said I was her drug..she could not make it without me, she has put drugs in my food, tried forcing cocaine in me...she is insane..certifible... Some financial and transportation problems have arisen today...God help me..and my dad is in the hospital with his heart..but he went with flu symptoms...he knows chest pain gets him morphine...he has done this before..it drives me nuts not knowing whether he is seriously ill..or drug seeking.. I feel crazy myself today..and agitated to no end. I am praying for wisdom..but I don't think it is God saying...RUN LIKE H***!! :banger __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

04-09-2004, 03:10 PM	#2 (permalink)
Justme57 Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Melbourne victoria Posts: 1,980 Blog Entries: 7	((((((((((((( tamster))))))))))) Oh! my dear Tamster ! you poor girl! hang in there love, she sure sounds a sandwich short ofa picnic ! You are in my thoughts and prayers dear friend BIG HUGX and LUV Lee

04-09-2004, 04:07 PM	#4 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	I checked my messages..she left one. I saved it. I will have to start keeping track of it all, in case she tries anything. She grew up on the streets on Houston, she is cruel and will do anything to get her way, make a scene, prove her point. I am going to go pray now, and calm myself down. The God I pray to is stronger than her. Hearing her voice has really troubled me. I cannot describe in words what she did she me and my family. But I will come thru this stronger than ever. It just has me abit shaken right now. I knew she wouldn't give up..but I prayed gainst hope that she would. __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

04-10-2004, 04:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
*indigo* Community Greeter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Mid-Life Express Posts: 9,133	2stop as soon as you get a couplemore messages or any proof for that matter get the law in she sounds like she really needs help!! take care and i'll be thinking of you and yours Love Indigo xx Here's a message for her!! __________________ When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself." Namasté

04-10-2004, 12:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
bubblze30 Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: mass Posts: 1,360	Keep a journal of all she does. tape all phone calls and messages from her. Although they r not admisable in court they will hear them and help you to get a stay away order. Let her know you can not go on like this. You feel very uncomfortable with her and her behavior. This way you can tell the law you told her and let them hear how she talks to and about you. Just hang in there and you will be alright. She is in great need of help. Although the crazier you get the more you think your sane. So I dont see her seeking help. Do the best you can to just stay away from her. As for your dad there is not much you can do. Lord knows we only get clean when we want or are ready. So pray for him as well. You are always in my prayers as well.\ __________________ "What don't kill us. Will make us stronger"

04-09-2004, 03:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
51anna Forum Leader Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Dancing in the Light Posts: 11,026	Hang in there Tammie, With any luck she'll end up in a hospital where she can be helped. I hope things settle down for you and that you can relax a bit for the rest of the weekend. Love, Anna

04-10-2004, 09:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,023	I agree with bubblxe!! make sure and tape or record any evidance you can get on her! remember her word against yours! My father always told/taught me C.Y.O.A =cover your own ass! She sounds like a complete wacko!! was she attracted to you? or what! I will say a prayer for the wacko to stay away from ya'll! also for your dad! (((((((((((((((Tammy)))))))))))))))))) __________________ "If a Child feels Safe, Wanted & Loved, You are a Successful Parent!" ~~"A relationship is like sand in your hand. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers!!~~

04-11-2004, 09:32 AM	#8 (permalink)
laurie6781 Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: New Mexico Posts: 1,783	Tammie, just like has been said, keep a record of everything, phone calls, messages left, actions she has taken!!!!! This woman is STALKING YOU. I believe all the states have STALKING LAWS now, and to protect you and your family, it might be time to go ahead and call the police give them what you have, and what has transpired in the past, then every time she calls or drives by or does some other outlandish thing that feels even a teeny bit "threatening" to you and your family, call them again and report it. Most police departments today take STALKING very very seriously and by the time you have made your 3rd of 4th report will be looking to bring her in and arrest her. Once she is arrested, get a "restraining order" that can be served on her while she is still in jail. Then, even if she gets out on bail, the next phone call, or message left will be cause for immediate re-arrest. The bringing in of the police and her possible detainment may be the impetus needed for her to get some serious professional help. In the meantime, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Love and (((((to all))))), __________________ God Bless You All As You Trudge The Road Of Happy Destiny (especially when you trudgin thru alligators up to your butt)

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