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myles1 · 09-02-2003, 12:59 PM

Can you friggin believe it???????????

After all the times he had to come back and all the chances I gave him to get his s#%t together the jerk reappears when I've met somebody and am moving on with my life.

He showed up the other day at my house and I wouldn't answer the door and he's been going by my house at odd times, in other words he's stalking me.

Are they psycho or what?????????

Ngaire

bikerprincess · 09-02-2003, 01:02 PM

Myles...thats how it always works....It is called manipulation...Don't fall for it!! Get a restraining order if you must. But do it with as little drama as possible

Anne

myles1 · 09-02-2003, 01:45 PM

Hi,

Thanks. I just wonder what is the frigging point, it's so annoying. I don't feel anything for him except that I just plain and simple don't want to deal with him. I think he's nuts and it never ends well for me to deal with him. He's just showing again how he only thinks of himself.

Ngaire

smoke gets in my eyes · 09-02-2003, 01:56 PM

Hi Ngaire...

Just a thought, but... could he have gotten wind of the fact that you have someone else? Could this be happening BECAUSE you are moving on? Maybe until now he thought there would always be time to fix things... later. When he wouldn't be missing so many good parties or something. Perhaps it didn't occur to him that you really might not be available later.

I'm glad you have something better going.

Hugs,
Smoke

myles1 · 09-02-2003, 02:03 PM

Hi Smoke,

Yes I'm sure this is happening because I'm moving on and I'm sure, like you say he figured he'd have time to fix things............later. It was always later I was never a priority that's for sure.

Ngaire

Paulie · 09-02-2003, 07:29 PM

Quote:

I've met somebody and am moving on with my life.

that is what is important, focus on that!

Take care of you!!

bubblze30 · 09-03-2003, 06:59 AM

When you want them they dont want you when you move on they move in on you. It happens all the time. Oh leave him I love you. If you are happy with your new life don't sacrifice it for anyone. You deserve to be happy. So be happy he will get the picture and if not get a restraining order.I am glad to hear you are happy now.

myles1 · 09-04-2003, 06:49 PM

Well we had a visitor this afternoon, the ex stopped by to give my son his birthday present. Well I told him I didn't want him giving Myles anything anymore that it wasn't his place anymore to give him anything. Then I said we were hurt by you once, we won't be hurt again and to leave and not to come back. So he left before I could give back the money he gave Myles so I put the money in an envelope and mailed it back to him.

Ngaire

09-02-2003, 12:59 PM	#1 (permalink)
myles1 Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Ayer's Cliff, Quebec Posts: 797	Heeeee's baaaaaaack!@!!! Can you friggin believe it??????????? After all the times he had to come back and all the chances I gave him to get his s#%t together the jerk reappears when I've met somebody and am moving on with my life. He showed up the other day at my house and I wouldn't answer the door and he's been going by my house at odd times, in other words he's stalking me. Are they psycho or what????????? Ngaire

09-02-2003, 01:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
smoke gets in my eyes 1000 Post Club Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: That's what I'd like to know. Posts: 2,432	Hi Ngaire... Just a thought, but... could he have gotten wind of the fact that you have someone else? Could this be happening BECAUSE you are moving on? Maybe until now he thought there would always be time to fix things... later. When he wouldn't be missing so many good parties or something. Perhaps it didn't occur to him that you really might not be available later. I'm glad you have something better going. Hugs, Smoke __________________ It is better to have loved and lost than to live with a psycho for the rest of your life. 21st century proverb

09-03-2003, 06:59 AM	#7 (permalink)
bubblze30 Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: mass Posts: 1,360	When you want them they dont want you when you move on they move in on you. It happens all the time. Oh leave him I love you. If you are happy with your new life don't sacrifice it for anyone. You deserve to be happy. So be happy he will get the picture and if not get a restraining order.I am glad to hear you are happy now. __________________ "What don't kill us. Will make us stronger"

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09-02-2003, 01:02 PM	#2 (permalink)
bikerprincess Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: St Louis, MO Posts: 190	Myles...thats how it always works....It is called manipulation...Don't fall for it!! Get a restraining order if you must. But do it with as little drama as possible Anne

09-02-2003, 01:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
myles1 Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Ayer's Cliff, Quebec Posts: 797	Hi, Thanks. I just wonder what is the frigging point, it's so annoying. I don't feel anything for him except that I just plain and simple don't want to deal with him. I think he's nuts and it never ends well for me to deal with him. He's just showing again how he only thinks of himself. Ngaire

09-02-2003, 02:03 PM	#5 (permalink)
myles1 Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Ayer's Cliff, Quebec Posts: 797	Hi Smoke, Yes I'm sure this is happening because I'm moving on and I'm sure, like you say he figured he'd have time to fix things............later. It was always later I was never a priority that's for sure. Ngaire

09-04-2003, 06:49 PM	#8 (permalink)
myles1 Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Ayer's Cliff, Quebec Posts: 797	Well we had a visitor this afternoon, the ex stopped by to give my son his birthday present. Well I told him I didn't want him giving Myles anything anymore that it wasn't his place anymore to give him anything. Then I said we were hurt by you once, we won't be hurt again and to leave and not to come back. So he left before I could give back the money he gave Myles so I put the money in an envelope and mailed it back to him. Ngaire

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