scared of own judgement

[LettingGo]

Well I am on the verge of a pretty big decision here. I am more than likley moving out of my home with my kids and getting a divorce. That is not the part I am afraid of! I am afraid of myself! I am afraid that all of a sudden I will become the crazy woman again who is so wrapped up in getting a boyfriend or a date etc.... that it is all consuming. I feel like this will not be an issue, but at the same time it scares me.

How do I work through this neediness? I am pregnant so granted there is not a lot of option for catting around, but still, I want to be happy with just me! I want to feel good about being single and just concentrate on my recovery and my kids. Maybe because I am getting sober and working on myself from the inside out, this will help me to feel better alone and not so needy for attention. Love any input you girls have.

Thanks

[Paulie]

because I am getting sober and working on myself from the inside out, this will help me to feel better alone and not so needy for attention.

What you said above is the truth!! You answered your own question and didn't even know it... great when that happens.

[bikerprincess]

LG

One thing at a time...One day at a time...you will find the healthier you get, the healthier your decisions about the KIND of man you want will be.

Wait it out sister...Get to know yourself....and don't forget about the extra time for your kids....

Anne