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SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 08:18 PM

Hey sis!!! just had a thought!! no dont run away..give me a chance here

My uncle jack teaches tai kwon do!!! He works at GM in lordstown and lives in between me and you!!!! If I pick on him enough, he will give in to anything I want!!!

He will teach us this art of defense!!! Then we can go find lettingGo's problem and practice on him!!! and then my ex, and then the kids dad!!!

WE COULD KICK SOME SERIOUS BUTT!!! So what do ya think huh?? ya want to huh?? do ya do ya huh????

2stop · 07-16-2003, 08:24 PM

Let's head to Lordstown!!! LOL!!

Double drop kick their butt's AND give em an attitude adjustment to boot! Something's gotten into my hubby-he just told me I get a back massage tonight because I deserve it!

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 08:27 PM

I agree!!!! You do deserve it!!!! Now get your butt in there and collect!!!!

2stop · 07-16-2003, 08:32 PM

I have been wanting for years to take martial arts..As soon as I work on my agoraphobia I am going to sign up!!

I'm going to take the kids with me and we'll learn together!

Have a good night Sky-and thanks for being such a good friend!! Love ya! :kisshug:

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 08:37 PM

Lets go SIS!!!!!! we can DO it!!!

2stop · 07-16-2003, 09:44 PM

The night was going so well...then wouldn't ya know it he finds a way to tel me what no-good b*** I am! Men..I don't even know what to say about em right now. I just get tired of their sh**.
Let's go get em Sky!!!!

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 09:48 PM

Im in shock!!!!

Did you get the back rub???? If not..get in there and get it!!! be real nice in order to get it...and then after you get your back rub....tell HIM he cant rub backs at all!!! and, and , and that we are gonna sue him for false advertisement!!!!

2stop · 07-16-2003, 09:51 PM

I'm not geting a back rub from someone thinks me so many awful things! Screw it, I'll rub my back against the wall first!!

I'm just gonna ignore it til I learn my karate! I could improvise I'm sure... but why waste the energy?

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 09:57 PM

Sis....Im so sorry for you!!

I know that you really need him right now...it seems that in times of trouble people always feel the need to pull away when they really need to pull together.

2stop · 07-16-2003, 09:59 PM

Ain't that the truth? Awww..he'll come around, just being a stubborn male JA!!!!:p

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 10:15 PM

2stop · 07-16-2003, 10:17 PM

ButterflyChaser · 07-16-2003, 11:32 PM

hey I need to learn to kick some serious butt!

sorry didn't mean to intrude her!

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-16-2003, 11:34 PM

No intrusion at all!!!

You can come too!!!

We need to learn to defend ourselves!!!!

ButterflyChaser · 07-17-2003, 08:18 AM

I'm with ya 100% of the way!

can ya tell..i love these guys!

Chy · 07-17-2003, 03:29 PM

Sky you come up with the best stuff! *LOL*

Tam be strong, I'd give the ******* some exlax in his desert tonight. Your way of putting up with his $hit, verbal abuse should not be tolerated either!

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-17-2003, 06:48 PM

Chy!!!! R U comming to learn to kick serious butt too???

2stop · 07-17-2003, 08:18 PM

All is well tonight! Had a barbeque over at my dad's house and just relaxed some. No Kung-Fu fighting necessary yet!!!:p

wakowife · 07-17-2003, 08:20 PM

hey count me in on kicking butt:

2stop: what gives, why is he always doing a 360 on you. i dont get it why are men such jerks. keep up the faith girl, yuo know that your better than the names he calls you. hey i got an idea, maybe it's his own insecurities of you getting clean that is scareing the hell out of him,, maybe he feel that after everything he has done to you when you need him the most, you will turn around a tell him where to go.

hang tough

Bernadette

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-17-2003, 08:23 PM

2stop · 07-17-2003, 08:29 PM

{{WW}}-How ya doing girl? Oh the hubby will just have get to used the idea of me finally getting my life straight-I have put him through a lot of BS with my addiction and I know he is scared of many things..like is she really serious now? will she go back to using and die? I know it's been hard on him BigTime and I just need to be patient, he's a wonderful guy in so many ways and I love him so much it hurts. I think he is to the point that loving me is dangerous and his emotions have been through hell, I really have to be more patient, I guess. My family was affected by my using. It'll all work out! I'll accept nothing less!!

wakowife · 07-17-2003, 08:53 PM

i'm so proud of you, i do understand what hyoru saying about his thinking, i swear him and my hubby could be brothers. my husband is the same way, he never believes that this is the last time. everytime i walk out the door, he never knows if i'm coming home or not. if i take to long in the shower he comes in to make sure that everything is alright. last night he left for work and some of my friends had come over earlier for a bbq, my husband called me at least 6 times between 6 pm and 11pm . he says he just wanted to know if i was having a good time, but he was worried that i might disappear again. yet these people are stright as an arrow. but to him it doesn't matter he doesn't trust anyone anymore.

glad to see you have faith in your relationship, and every now and then you need to put them in there place..
hang in there

Bernadette

Chy · 07-17-2003, 11:41 PM

...damn how do you tie these things? *wink*

I do suppose we have done more harm then we realize in our relationships aye? But we are all trying this time and sure yet again! We'll show them this time! Right! We are woman!

wakowife · 07-18-2003, 08:16 AM

you are so right!!!!!!!!!!THIS TIME WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bernadette

SkyIsFalling42 · 07-18-2003, 09:58 AM

Ladies...your strength and resolve blows me away!!

07-16-2003, 08:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	2stop..come on you!!!1 Hey sis!!! just had a thought!! no dont run away..give me a chance here My uncle jack teaches tai kwon do!!! He works at GM in lordstown and lives in between me and you!!!! If I pick on him enough, he will give in to anything I want!!! He will teach us this art of defense!!! Then we can go find lettingGo's problem and practice on him!!! and then my ex, and then the kids dad!!! WE COULD KICK SOME SERIOUS BUTT!!! So what do ya think huh?? ya want to huh?? do ya do ya huh???? __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 08:24 PM	#2 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	Let's head to Lordstown!!! LOL!! Double drop kick their butt's AND give em an attitude adjustment to boot! Something's gotten into my hubby-he just told me I get a back massage tonight because I deserve it! __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 08:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	I agree!!!! You do deserve it!!!! Now get your butt in there and collect!!!! __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 08:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	I have been wanting for years to take martial arts..As soon as I work on my agoraphobia I am going to sign up!! I'm going to take the kids with me and we'll learn together! Have a good night Sky-and thanks for being such a good friend!! Love ya! :kisshug: __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 08:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	Lets go SIS!!!!!! we can DO it!!! __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 09:44 PM	#6 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	The night was going so well...then wouldn't ya know it he finds a way to tel me what no-good b* I am! Men..I don't even know what to say about em right now. I just get tired of their sh. Let's go get em Sky!!!! __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 09:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	Im in shock!!!! Did you get the back rub???? If not..get in there and get it!!! be real nice in order to get it...and then after you get your back rub....tell HIM he cant rub backs at all!!! and, and , and that we are gonna sue him for false advertisement!!!! __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 09:51 PM	#8 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	I'm not geting a back rub from someone thinks me so many awful things! Screw it, I'll rub my back against the wall first!! I'm just gonna ignore it til I learn my karate! I could improvise I'm sure... but why waste the energy? __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 09:57 PM	#9 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	Sis....Im so sorry for you!! I know that you really need him right now...it seems that in times of trouble people always feel the need to pull away when they really need to pull together. __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 09:59 PM	#10 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	Ain't that the truth? Awww..he'll come around, just being a stubborn male JA!!!!:p __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 10:15 PM	#11 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	__________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-16-2003, 10:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	__________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-16-2003, 11:32 PM	#13 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,023	hey I need to learn to kick some serious butt! sorry didn't mean to intrude her!

07-16-2003, 11:34 PM	#14 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	No intrusion at all!!! You can come too!!! We need to learn to defend ourselves!!!! __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-17-2003, 08:18 AM	#15 (permalink)
ButterflyChaser Meow! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 1,023	I'm with ya 100% of the way! can ya tell..i love these guys!

07-17-2003, 03:29 PM	#16 (permalink)
Chy Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: El Paso, Tx Posts: 5,886	Sky you come up with the best stuff! LOL Tam be strong, I'd give the ******* some exlax in his desert tonight. Your way of putting up with his $hit, verbal abuse should not be tolerated either!

07-17-2003, 06:48 PM	#17 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	Chy!!!! R U comming to learn to kick serious butt too??? __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-17-2003, 08:18 PM	#18 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	All is well tonight! Had a barbeque over at my dad's house and just relaxed some. No Kung-Fu fighting necessary yet!!!:p __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-17-2003, 08:20 PM	#19 (permalink)
wakowife Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Ozone Park, New York Posts: 281	hey count me in on kicking butt: 2stop: what gives, why is he always doing a 360 on you. i dont get it why are men such jerks. keep up the faith girl, yuo know that your better than the names he calls you. hey i got an idea, maybe it's his own insecurities of you getting clean that is scareing the hell out of him,, maybe he feel that after everything he has done to you when you need him the most, you will turn around a tell him where to go. hang tough Bernadette

07-17-2003, 08:23 PM	#20 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	__________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~

07-17-2003, 08:29 PM	#21 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,666	{{WW}}-How ya doing girl? Oh the hubby will just have get to used the idea of me finally getting my life straight-I have put him through a lot of BS with my addiction and I know he is scared of many things..like is she really serious now? will she go back to using and die? I know it's been hard on him BigTime and I just need to be patient, he's a wonderful guy in so many ways and I love him so much it hurts. I think he is to the point that loving me is dangerous and his emotions have been through hell, I really have to be more patient, I guess. My family was affected by my using. It'll all work out! I'll accept nothing less!! __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

07-17-2003, 08:53 PM	#22 (permalink)
wakowife Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Ozone Park, New York Posts: 281	i'm so proud of you, i do understand what hyoru saying about his thinking, i swear him and my hubby could be brothers. my husband is the same way, he never believes that this is the last time. everytime i walk out the door, he never knows if i'm coming home or not. if i take to long in the shower he comes in to make sure that everything is alright. last night he left for work and some of my friends had come over earlier for a bbq, my husband called me at least 6 times between 6 pm and 11pm . he says he just wanted to know if i was having a good time, but he was worried that i might disappear again. yet these people are stright as an arrow. but to him it doesn't matter he doesn't trust anyone anymore. glad to see you have faith in your relationship, and every now and then you need to put them in there place.. hang in there Bernadette

07-17-2003, 11:41 PM	#23 (permalink)
Chy Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: El Paso, Tx Posts: 5,886	*comes in with boxing gloves* ...damn how do you tie these things? wink I do suppose we have done more harm then we realize in our relationships aye? But we are all trying this time and sure yet again! We'll show them this time! Right! We are woman!

07-18-2003, 08:16 AM	#24 (permalink)
wakowife Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Ozone Park, New York Posts: 281	you are so right!!!!!!!!!!THIS TIME WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bernadette

07-18-2003, 09:58 AM	#25 (permalink)
SkyIsFalling42 Big kitty nose hugs Join Date: May 2003 Location: Center of The World Posts: 1,261	Ladies...your strength and resolve blows me away!! __________________ Love In Spirit, Sky Where my heart is....... http://Writing.Com/authors/skyisfalling02 "Never Give In, Never Give In, Never Give In, Never, Never, Never." ~~Sir Winston Churchill~~