Please Help ME!!!! - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

tmcdaniel · 02-26-2008, 08:09 AM

Hi Everyone -
I have a 20 year old daughter that I am in dyer and desperate need of finding a inpt facility to accept her without insurance. She is addicted to painkillers and she is killing herself. I have tried everything. I would die and go to hell if it would mean me getting her into a facility. She's crying for help!!! She has tried to stop on her own but she can't get thru the withdrawals. I am asking - no I am BEGGING for help. Somebody please, please help me.

Paulie · 02-26-2008, 08:16 AM

I am sorry for your daughters pain (and yours) I suggest you call every place in your area and ask for suggestions. If they dont have any free beds (which some do) ask them about places for her, explain the situation. People in the industry are the best for that kind of information. Just pick up the phone book, call your local social services agency ask them for information, use whatever services your county offers to get information.

I hope that your daughter wants to stop as much as you want her to.

Blessings to both of you.

***Anna*** · 02-26-2008, 08:27 AM

Paulie's advice is great.

I would also suggest The Salvation Army which offers free recovery programs.

Your daughter does really need to want help for any program to work for her.

***Morning Glory*** · 02-26-2008, 09:01 AM

Here is a treatment search link that may help.

Substance Abuse Treatment Facility Locator

***nandm*** · 02-26-2008, 10:34 AM

Call the Salvation Army as I believe they have treatment facilities available for free.

indigo · 02-27-2008, 03:48 AM

All the above, Welcome to SR.
hugs indie

**CarolD** · 02-27-2008, 07:25 AM

Prayers for the 2 of you as you deal with this

BUTTERFLY-7 · 03-04-2008, 10:21 PM

listen I'am so sorry about what u are going through but if is of any help what I'am about to tell u my sound crazy or in ur world u maite not understand it I'am not going to tell u what everrybody in the panel told u wich is the first place we all turn to, to a program but u said she ain't got no health insurance,if is of any comfort I also din't have health insurance and I was driving everybody crazy with my addiction please believe it or not what I'am about to tell u maite sound crazy u just said u will die&go to hell if it mean's saving ur child my question is why always turn to the devil when we live in enough hell as it is why can't we say we will gift our soul to GODhere I' intruduce to u one much greater than hell whom I choose to call my lord and savior JESUS CHRIST like I said I was driving everrybody crazy my dad I'lost my son my self I've drove everyone crazyall I did was cry out to GOD and activated my faith this is not about religion I'dont preach religion this is about faith all I did was cry on to GOD he did it he did for me what I couldn't do for my self my advice in the midle off desperation we can't think we can't see or balieve specially when it come's to one of our love one's u as the father activate ur faith to GOD he is waiting with open arm's he is the healer of the world&humanity trust& the miracle will happenBLESS&BE BLESS

BUTTERFLY-7 · 03-04-2008, 10:51 PM

:prayingHI I'am so sorry about what ur confronting but if is of any hope I've got a testimonie to share I also drove my father crazy with my addiction I lost the only inportant being in my life my son ADAM the system took him

and them came a radiem of sunshine u said u will die and go to hell in order to save ur life trust me u don;t want to go there,I could understand the stress ur under and when all hope is gone we get desperate&wearie we can't see the light but what I'am about to tell u you maite not understand because it only work's when u star beleaving I sent a post earlyr I dont know if it was posted but I didn't have insurance to and I was tire of being sick and tire I've cry on to GOD with all my heart&strengh I had noother choice but to believe either was that or die& i didn't want to die& ask the all mighty to help all I did was activated my faith&GOD did the rest god did 4r me what I couldn't do 4r me he brang me to that place of surrender&peace and I'am going on 2-month clean I'am not going to lie I fight the battle every day&and guess what is aconstend battle but he fight's 4r me let him fight 4r u&ur daugher u are the father u activate ue faiht with that same energy that u was willing to die&go to hell well with that same energy get on ur need's &die to those desire's of fustration&fear and turn it to the will of G.O.D BLESS&B-BLESS

ccgirl2 · 03-08-2008, 09:41 PM

Maybe a local chapter of NA or the national NA hotline could give you suggestions? There has to be something something somewhere.

indigo · 03-11-2008, 08:49 AM

I am so sad for your situation, please pull out all the stops, phone anyone who may be of assistance in your area. I hope you find something soon.

02-26-2008, 08:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
tmcdaniel Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Baltimore, MD Posts: 1	Please Help ME!!!! Hi Everyone - I have a 20 year old daughter that I am in dyer and desperate need of finding a inpt facility to accept her without insurance. She is addicted to painkillers and she is killing herself. I have tried everything. I would die and go to hell if it would mean me getting her into a facility. She's crying for help!!! She has tried to stop on her own but she can't get thru the withdrawals. I am asking - no I am BEGGING for help. Somebody please, please help me.

02-26-2008, 08:16 AM	#2 (permalink)
Paulie It is what it is!!! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Sobriety Posts: 5,785	I am sorry for your daughters pain (and yours) I suggest you call every place in your area and ask for suggestions. If they dont have any free beds (which some do) ask them about places for her, explain the situation. People in the industry are the best for that kind of information. Just pick up the phone book, call your local social services agency ask them for information, use whatever services your county offers to get information. I hope that your daughter wants to stop as much as you want her to. Blessings to both of you. __________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR

02-26-2008, 08:27 AM	#3 (permalink)
*Anna* Administrator Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Dancing in the Light Posts: 22,812	Paulie's advice is great. I would also suggest The Salvation Army which offers free recovery programs. Your daughter does really need to want help for any program to work for her. __________________ And I dont know what the future is holding in store I dont know where Im going, Im not sure where I've been There's a spirit that guides me, a light that shines for me My life is worth the living, I dont need to see the end. John Denver

02-26-2008, 09:01 AM	#4 (permalink)
*Morning Glory* Administrator Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: CA Posts: 9,969 Blog Entries: 2	Here is a treatment search link that may help. Substance Abuse Treatment Facility Locator __________________ “Come to the edge.” “We can't. We're afraid.” “Come to the edge.” “We can't. We will fall!” “Come to the edge.” And they came. And he pushed them. And they flew. Guillaume Apollinaire, 1880-1918

02-26-2008, 10:34 AM	#5 (permalink)
*nandm* Life the gift of recovery! Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Home is where the heart is Posts: 6,580	Call the Salvation Army as I believe they have treatment facilities available for free. __________________ NOTE: All BB quotes are from the 1st Edition of the Big Book Depression is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of being too strong for too long.

02-27-2008, 03:48 AM	#6 (permalink)
indigo Community Greeter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Mid-Life Express Posts: 9,928	All the above, Welcome to SR. hugs indie __________________ When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself." Namasté

02-27-2008, 07:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
CarolD Forum Leader Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Serene In Dixie Posts: 34,835	Prayers for the 2 of you as you deal with this __________________ Each Day Sober Is A Victory!! Joy In AA Recovery!

03-04-2008, 10:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
BUTTERFLY-7 FreeSpirit Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Inside My Spirit Posts: 1,275 Blog Entries: 2	listen I'am so sorry about what u are going through but if is of any help what I'am about to tell u my sound crazy or in ur world u maite not understand it I'am not going to tell u what everrybody in the panel told u wich is the first place we all turn to, to a program but u said she ain't got no health insurance,if is of any comfort I also din't have health insurance and I was driving everybody crazy with my addiction please believe it or not what I'am about to tell u maite sound crazy u just said u will die&go to hell if it mean's saving ur child my question is why always turn to the devil when we live in enough hell as it is why can't we say we will gift our soul to GODhere I' intruduce to u one much greater than hell whom I choose to call my lord and savior JESUS CHRIST like I said I was driving everrybody crazy my dad I'lost my son my self I've drove everyone crazyall I did was cry out to GOD and activated my faith this is not about religion I'dont preach religion this is about faith all I did was cry on to GOD he did it he did for me what I couldn't do for my self my advice in the midle off desperation we can't think we can't see or balieve specially when it come's to one of our love one's u as the father activate ur faith to GOD he is waiting with open arm's he is the healer of the world&humanity trust& the miracle will happenBLESS&BE BLESS

03-04-2008, 10:51 PM	#9 (permalink)
BUTTERFLY-7 FreeSpirit Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Inside My Spirit Posts: 1,275 Blog Entries: 2	:prayingHI I'am so sorry about what ur confronting but if is of any hope I've got a testimonie to share I also drove my father crazy with my addiction I lost the only inportant being in my life my son ADAM the system took himand them came a radiem of sunshine u said u will die and go to hell in order to save ur life trust me u don;t want to go there,I could understand the stress ur under and when all hope is gone we get desperate&wearie we can't see the light but what I'am about to tell u you maite not understand because it only work's when u star beleaving I sent a post earlyr I dont know if it was posted but I didn't have insurance to and I was tire of being sick and tire I've cry on to GOD with all my heart&strengh I had noother choice but to believe either was that or die& i didn't want to die& ask the all mighty to help all I did was activated my faith&GOD did the rest god did 4r me what I couldn't do 4r me he brang me to that place of surrender&peace and I'am going on 2-month clean I'am not going to lie I fight the battle every day&and guess what is aconstend battle but he fight's 4r me let him fight 4r u&ur daugher u are the father u activate ue faiht with that same energy that u was willing to die&go to hell well with that same energy get on ur need's &die to those desire's of fustration&fear and turn it to the will of G.O.D BLESS&B-BLESS

03-08-2008, 09:41 PM	#10 (permalink)
ccgirl2 Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: cape cod Posts: 2,320	Maybe a local chapter of NA or the national NA hotline could give you suggestions? There has to be something something somewhere.

03-11-2008, 08:49 AM	#11 (permalink)
indigo Community Greeter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Mid-Life Express Posts: 9,928	I am so sad for your situation, please pull out all the stops, phone anyone who may be of assistance in your area. I hope you find something soon. __________________ When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself." Namasté

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