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Paulie · 05-27-2003, 08:02 AM

Hey zoom - you said that thread was too long for you to read on your moms TV so I thought I would start a new one for you.

I know what you are going through is rough, but I can tell from your posts that seeing your mom smile is all worth it to you. You are creating memories that will stay in your heart forever. I was only a kid when my dad got cancer and passed away and unfortuately I stayed as far away from him the last few weeks as I possible could, I was too young to handle it and to young to understand how much I would regret not being there at the end.

Love and hugs to you my friend.

**Ann** · 05-29-2003, 11:22 AM

Hi Zoomer

I saw this thread and just wanted to send a hug from me too.

My mom died 6 years ago, but she's still with me every day if you know what I mean. I'm happy that you can be with her right now.

Hugs

C.zoomer · 05-30-2003, 01:16 AM

Hey ya guys. I don't know what I'd do with out all your support. One thing that gets me is that my mo made it out to her doctors and friends like us kids did not care about her on never did anything for her,boy that pisses me of big time. Anywho I pulled away from my mom too the past year because I was trying to brace myself for when she dies. I lost my father at 14,so I know what death is all abot and I just did not want to be the one to buiry both parents. I wanted at the time to remember my mom as she was,but I'm glad I'm here now to see who she has become. She still has her um izum ways about her,but she has fought a batted worth writing about. She is a hero to the breast cancer world because she will not just lay down and die like the doctors and hospice wants,she is going out in style and fun and zaney all the way. I'm glad to be here to help her make it happen,I just wish I did not miss my kids so much or have this horse s-h-i-t dealing with evil thinking people. I already decorated her patio in the 4th of july theme because she loves the forth. Just stupid stuff makes her smile. Ha, my mom was on morphine while coming back from Tahoe and she told this one prissy lady that she out lived all "her men and buirred them all". Ha,they though she was a grieving widow,but to witch of the 6 men? LOL!!! I think that is why she has so much fun with me because we are "sort of" cut from the same cloth. I'm just more aware and careful than she was and we are in a generation where kids are first,not adults. Anyway I'm sure glad I have this place to come to to sort out my thoughs. I'm so very lucky to have all of you!
Love Zoomer

05-27-2003, 08:02 AM	#1 (permalink)
Paulie It is what it is!!! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Sobriety Posts: 5,785	Zoomer - new thread Hey zoom - you said that thread was too long for you to read on your moms TV so I thought I would start a new one for you. I know what you are going through is rough, but I can tell from your posts that seeing your mom smile is all worth it to you. You are creating memories that will stay in your heart forever. I was only a kid when my dad got cancer and passed away and unfortuately I stayed as far away from him the last few weeks as I possible could, I was too young to handle it and to young to understand how much I would regret not being there at the end. Love and hugs to you my friend. __________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR

05-29-2003, 11:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
Ann Forum Leader Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: By The Lake Posts: 25,227	Hi Zoomer I saw this thread and just wanted to send a hug from me too. My mom died 6 years ago, but she's still with me every day if you know what I mean. I'm happy that you can be with her right now. Hugs __________________ “Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” ~Winnie the Pooh~

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05-30-2003, 01:16 AM	#3 (permalink)
C.zoomer Paused Join Date: May 2003 Location: pollicpines,california Posts: 38	Hey ya guys. I don't know what I'd do with out all your support. One thing that gets me is that my mo made it out to her doctors and friends like us kids did not care about her on never did anything for her,boy that pisses me of big time. Anywho I pulled away from my mom too the past year because I was trying to brace myself for when she dies. I lost my father at 14,so I know what death is all abot and I just did not want to be the one to buiry both parents. I wanted at the time to remember my mom as she was,but I'm glad I'm here now to see who she has become. She still has her um izum ways about her,but she has fought a batted worth writing about. She is a hero to the breast cancer world because she will not just lay down and die like the doctors and hospice wants,she is going out in style and fun and zaney all the way. I'm glad to be here to help her make it happen,I just wish I did not miss my kids so much or have this horse s-h-i-t dealing with evil thinking people. I already decorated her patio in the 4th of july theme because she loves the forth. Just stupid stuff makes her smile. Ha, my mom was on morphine while coming back from Tahoe and she told this one prissy lady that she out lived all "her men and buirred them all". Ha,they though she was a grieving widow,but to witch of the 6 men? LOL!!! I think that is why she has so much fun with me because we are "sort of" cut from the same cloth. I'm just more aware and careful than she was and we are in a generation where kids are first,not adults. Anyway I'm sure glad I have this place to come to to sort out my thoughs. I'm so very lucky to have all of you! Love Zoomer

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