If I didn't drink I could have bought....
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Join Date: Sep 2015
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If I didn't drink I could have bought....
Was doing the math and it was staggering....
1. A brand new luxury vehicle paid off in 4 years.
2. A boat
3. A nice long vacation for my wife and I...
List could keep going.
What could/would you have bought?
1. A brand new luxury vehicle paid off in 4 years.
2. A boat
3. A nice long vacation for my wife and I...
List could keep going.
What could/would you have bought?
I doubt I would have bought "stuff," but I would have done more interesting stuff. Concerts, races, traveling, finished an education.
As of now, my primary financial long term goals center on proper retirement investing and property, with a reasonable cash reserve.
Adulting is a pain.
As of now, my primary financial long term goals center on proper retirement investing and property, with a reasonable cash reserve.
Adulting is a pain.
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Join Date: Oct 2015
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I've wondered this as well, Crete. I've only been drinking for three years, so I guess it wouldn't be enough for a house, but it would probably be enough for a vacation for our family. Makes me feel awful thinking about it.
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But if I had gotten sober say 22 or 23 when it was becoming apparent I had a problem with booze/drugs who knows where I might have ended up career-wise.
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I suppose it would've been many things but unfortunately I had to lose them all or I would've kept pushing my limits. I had two homes. Would've had one in San Francisco. Both went into foreclosure. I would've not feared creditors since that became a defect through my substance abuses. I would've gotten a degree & focused in school. The seats would've not been empty at thanksgiving and Christmas and their birthdays and I would've been punctual to work School etc and been present at other events. I would've not endangered other drivers and pedestrians and I would've not gotten into jail for hitting people.
On the positive note, I'm grateful for not repeating my behaviors and for my daily living amends from not taking a drink/drug.
On the positive note, I'm grateful for not repeating my behaviors and for my daily living amends from not taking a drink/drug.
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The money spent foolishly on my addiction and owe amends for was unfortunately what kept me alive while my spirit was painfully and slowly dying on the inside. Now that I'm in recovery, I make better choices and alcohol, etc. is no longer my solution to my alcoholism.
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