Elbow Room - Our Own Space - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

**Ann** · 07-02-2005, 10:23 AM

You are reading from the book Today's Gift.

Now my soul hath elbowroom.
--William Shakespeare

If we spend too much time together we are bound to grow weary of one another. This would happen regardless of who the other person was. In a family, we need some time apart to pursue other interests and friendships. We may be able to meet many needs for each other, but there will be some we cannot meet. If we press too hard upon one another we will cramp our life together.

Our needs for space aren't just physical. Freedom to think and feel what seems appropriate for us, to be alone if we want, is a large part of our lives together. Only with this kind of freedom is love possible. Love requires freedom. We need to value each other, and at the same time realize that no one person or family can fill us with all life has to offer.

What are my own freedoms at home?

Grimnar · 07-02-2005, 10:59 PM

Amen!

07-02-2005, 10:23 AM	#1 (permalink)
Ann Forum Leader Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: By The Lake Posts: 25,173	Elbow Room - Our Own Space You are reading from the book Today's Gift. Now my soul hath elbowroom. --William Shakespeare If we spend too much time together we are bound to grow weary of one another. This would happen regardless of who the other person was. In a family, we need some time apart to pursue other interests and friendships. We may be able to meet many needs for each other, but there will be some we cannot meet. If we press too hard upon one another we will cramp our life together. Our needs for space aren't just physical. Freedom to think and feel what seems appropriate for us, to be alone if we want, is a large part of our lives together. Only with this kind of freedom is love possible. Love requires freedom. We need to value each other, and at the same time realize that no one person or family can fill us with all life has to offer. What are my own freedoms at home? __________________ “Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” ~Winnie the Pooh~

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07-02-2005, 10:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
Grimnar I bite. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: USA Posts: 498	Amen!

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