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Old 06-25-2005, 11:10 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I don't know what to say to her.

I don't know how to respond to this. A friend of mine said it to me. In a "say somthing you cant say to there face" thread.

You're lucky I don't have a car.
You're lucky I don't have a license.
I'm sorry I ******* care.
I can deal with the pain - pain is all I know.
If you don't like it, **** you.
Because I really do care about you.
Nothing you do or say will change that.
I love you, get it ?
I want to see you get better.
I don't want to see you down the road I went down.
I don't want you to throw your whole life away like I did.
I don't want to find out your dead or on a corner hookering for money to feed your addiction.
I want you to get better.
Because I ******* care.
See the pattern here ?
I ******* CARE.
**** you if you don't like that, I'll still ******* care.
I'll care until the last breath is taken from my body.
Can you see that ?
Can you see that I love you and care about you ?
I think you do.
I also think you just don't want to face the truth.
The truth hurts and sucks.
But oh well.
Get better - if not for me or anyone else, for YOU.
Because you are what matters.
YOU are what I care about.
See this ?
How many bloody ******* times do I have to say it ?
I ******* CARE AND LOVE YOU - GET BETTER ... please ?
Yes, I'm begging you.
I don't beg - but I will if that is what it takes.
I'll get down on my knees if I have to.
I'll drive out there and drag you into rehab.
I don't care if you hate me, because I care.
You can hate me with every particle of your being - and I'll still care.
You want me to say it again ?
I CARE.
I'm not the only one either.
A lot of people do.
So get better.
Please ?
I'm asking you, with all my heart, to get better.
If that doesn't mean something - I don't know what will.
The sister I never had.
The best friend I could tell everything that I never had.
If hating me is what it takes to get you better.
I'll do it willingly and without second thought.
So I'll say it one last time.
I care and love you - please please please get better ...
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...no ones ever said somthing like that to me ever. I dont know what to say to her.
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Old 06-26-2005, 06:44 AM   #2 (permalink)
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If it finally got through, perhaps "Thank you" would be appropriate.

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Old 06-28-2005, 02:53 PM   #3 (permalink)
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i wish my brother could read that....that's exactly what I'd like to say to him...he won't listen to anything any of us says...or see reality........he talked to me yesterday in a way i've never been talked to before....but i love him and i forgive him...unfortunately he's in the shape I was in several years ago...i hope for your sake you find the help u need........and dont say things that you'll regret later to the people who love you.........take your friends advice........get help and let someone love you
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Old 06-29-2005, 11:00 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Wow, how lucky to have someone who loves you unconditionally.

"Thank you and I love you too" would be my response.
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Old 06-29-2005, 11:52 AM   #5 (permalink)
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If that is something someone said to you, then I would say that you are loved and you are lucky!
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