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Nurse_Terri99 · 04-26-2005, 02:23 PM

This Is Why I Never Express My Thoughts Or Join Groups Im In Thn Stretts Ive Been Reecntly Raped I Have Nobdy To Talk To All I Want Is To Be Able To Talk And All I Apologize Kahilia I Do Ill I Need Is To Talk But This Is Why I Also Keep My Feelngs Inside So Its My Fualt I Was Raped And Need To Talk About It And Kidnapped

Nurse_Terri99 · 04-26-2005, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Nurse_Terri99

This Is Why I Never Express My Thoughts Or Join Groups Im In Thn Stretts Ive Been Reecntly Raped I Have Nobdy To Talk To All I Want Is To Be Able To Talk And All I Apologize Kahilia I Do Ill I Need Is To Talk But This Is Why I Also Keep My Feelngs Inside So Its My Fualt I Was Raped And Need To Talk About It And Kidnapped

im srry this is why i dont express my feelngs my husnabd is in jail due to the fact he had thought i had dyed and all when i was kidnapped im srry for ever exporessing my feelng in group this is why i dont talk or join groups ill be back tom in hopes i can clear thng up with u char

Andy F · 04-26-2005, 02:55 PM

Hi Terri

There's some women based forums here with some very cool women attached to it. You can additionaly take a look at www.suicideforum.com where they have a rape forum. I hope you can consider counselling.

Gabe · 04-26-2005, 03:51 PM

Hi Terry,
It's not your fault you got raped.
I'm sure you are experiencing a lot of painful feelings right now and those can be difficult to talk about.
But talking about them gets them out and that can help the healing start.
Perhaps you can contact a rape crisis center where you live.
That way you could get some counseling from people who understand what you've been through.
Sending some light your way.

***Anna*** · 04-26-2005, 04:34 PM

Hi Terri,

I am sorry you had to go through this, but you must know that being raped was NOT your fault, never, in any way your fault. And, I'm sure it's hard to talk about this, but I think it will help you to heal. Please know that I'm always around if you want to talk.

Love, Anna

Aa_vark · 04-26-2005, 04:44 PM

Hi Terri - here for you

Paulie · 04-26-2005, 04:51 PM

I agree with all the above. Please search out the rape crisis center in your area. Talking is what helps heal the pain. Rape is NOT the victims fault.

CAPTAINZING2000 · 04-26-2005, 06:38 PM

Terri,

I'm sorry this had to happened to you. You're the vicitm don't feel bad. Do what everr you have to to vent. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself. NO means no

We're all here for you

chris

Nurse_Terri99 · 04-27-2005, 11:36 AM

so chr when can i come back in i didnt mena to scaree anyone was just ventng voicng and expressing my thoughts is why i dont evevr talk or join groups cause of this reason right here i can leave the group if u wish me to CHR AND ILL LEAVE THE GROUP IF U WISH LET ME KNOW BY FOR NOW NO SINCE IN STCIKNG ARD WHERE IM NOT WNATED OR CANT TALK FREELY

Nurse_Terri99 · 04-27-2005, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by CAPTAINZING2000

Terri,

I'm sorry this had to happened to you. You're the vicitm don't feel bad. Do what everr you have to to vent. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself. NO means no

We're all here for you

chr has kicked me out of the main groups so ill probaly be movng on to other places and thngs one day ill find a frind to whom i can talk and be friends with WHO WILL NOT KICKME OUT OF THE GROUP LIKE CHR DID ILL BE LEAVNG THE GROUP DONT KNOW WHEN IF ANYBODY REALLYYYYYYYYYY WANTS TO TALK TO ME OR IS WORRIED ABOUT ME THEY CAN CONTACT ME AT Nurse_Terri99@yahoo.com SINCE CHR KISCKED ME OUT ILL BE LEAVNG IF ANYBODY IS REALLY WORRIED BOUT ME U CAN EMAIL ME THNK U CHRSAYNG THAT SARCATSTIKLY GOODBYE GROUPLIKE WHAT
chris

CAPTAINZING2000 · 04-27-2005, 12:28 PM

I don't feel like I can say the right things to help Terri

Drugs or drinking, I can offer some suggestions of how I stopped and have been able to stay sober.

Most of us in here can't give you the advice you need for something like this.

I wish, I could give you the help you seek for this. I'm at a loss for words.

Nurse_Terri99 · 04-27-2005, 01:33 PM

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since chy chi i guess has banned me i will leave the group to everyone who want to stay in contact Nurse_Terri99@yahoo.com
chy has baaned me from the group so ill say goodbye to group

Chy · 04-28-2005, 04:47 PM

I'm sorry to say nurse you are incorrect. You have not been banned otherwise you couldn't post.

04-26-2005, 02:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
Nurse_Terri99 Paused Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: st petesburg fl Posts: 9	This Is Why This Is Why I Never Express My Thoughts Or Join Groups Im In Thn Stretts Ive Been Reecntly Raped I Have Nobdy To Talk To All I Want Is To Be Able To Talk And All I Apologize Kahilia I Do Ill I Need Is To Talk But This Is Why I Also Keep My Feelngs Inside So Its My Fualt I Was Raped And Need To Talk About It And Kidnapped

04-26-2005, 04:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
*Anna* Administrator Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Dancing in the Light Posts: 22,807	Hi Terri, I am sorry you had to go through this, but you must know that being raped was NOT your fault, never, in any way your fault. And, I'm sure it's hard to talk about this, but I think it will help you to heal. Please know that I'm always around if you want to talk. Love, Anna __________________ And I dont know what the future is holding in store I dont know where Im going, Im not sure where I've been There's a spirit that guides me, a light that shines for me My life is worth the living, I dont need to see the end. John Denver

04-26-2005, 04:51 PM	#7 (permalink)
Paulie It is what it is!!! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Sobriety Posts: 5,785	I agree with all the above. Please search out the rape crisis center in your area. Talking is what helps heal the pain. Rape is NOT the victims fault. __________________ I know more about how to live than I did yesterday, but not as much as I'll know tomorrow. Today, Ill learn something new~JFT, 1/27/06 The difference between a good day and a bad day, is about 2 days~Ann of SR

04-26-2005, 06:38 PM	#8 (permalink)
CAPTAINZING2000 Psalm 118:24 Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: ILLINOIS Posts: 9,445 Blog Entries: 1	Terri, I'm sorry this had to happened to you. You're the vicitm don't feel bad. Do what everr you have to to vent. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself. NO means no We're all here for you chris __________________ LIFE IS GOD'S GIFT TO YOU WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE IS YOUR GIFT TO GOD J - Jesus first O - Others next Y - Yourself last John 14:6

04-27-2005, 12:28 PM	#11 (permalink)
CAPTAINZING2000 Psalm 118:24 Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: ILLINOIS Posts: 9,445 Blog Entries: 1	I don't feel like I can say the right things to help Terri Drugs or drinking, I can offer some suggestions of how I stopped and have been able to stay sober. Most of us in here can't give you the advice you need for something like this. I wish, I could give you the help you seek for this. I'm at a loss for words. __________________ LIFE IS GOD'S GIFT TO YOU WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE IS YOUR GIFT TO GOD J - Jesus first O - Others next Y - Yourself last John 14:6

04-26-2005, 02:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
Andy F Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: London Posts: 448	Hi Terri There's some women based forums here with some very cool women attached to it. You can additionaly take a look at www.suicideforum.com where they have a rape forum. I hope you can consider counselling.

04-26-2005, 03:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
Gabe Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 4,955	Hi Terry, It's not your fault you got raped. I'm sure you are experiencing a lot of painful feelings right now and those can be difficult to talk about. But talking about them gets them out and that can help the healing start. Perhaps you can contact a rape crisis center where you live. That way you could get some counseling from people who understand what you've been through. Sending some light your way.

04-26-2005, 04:44 PM	#6 (permalink)
Aa_vark Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: seattle Posts: 466	Hi Terri - here for you

04-27-2005, 11:36 AM	#9 (permalink)
Nurse_Terri99 Paused Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: st petesburg fl Posts: 9	so chr when can i come back in i didnt mena to scaree anyone was just ventng voicng and expressing my thoughts is why i dont evevr talk or join groups cause of this reason right here i can leave the group if u wish me to CHR AND ILL LEAVE THE GROUP IF U WISH LET ME KNOW BY FOR NOW NO SINCE IN STCIKNG ARD WHERE IM NOT WNATED OR CANT TALK FREELY

04-28-2005, 04:47 PM	#13 (permalink)
Chy Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: El Paso, Tx Posts: 5,867	I'm sorry to say nurse you are incorrect. You have not been banned otherwise you couldn't post.

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