ncsthbell, sorry to hear of your loss and pain. I can try to help you out with a placement. since I have not done an assessment on the person. you will have to call or visit the facilties and see which one fits your needs.
Pathways Counseling Center
2809 Highwoods Blvd
Raleigh, N.C. 27604
3900 Barrett Drive
1209 Linwood Avenue
Durham County Substance Services
508 Gordon Street
I hope this information causes you no stress and addresses the prblem in a comprehensive way to your satisfaction. Take care and post back so that we can continue to help out, fellowship and support your efforts. You are not alone.
Just for Today---------------I am Clean and Sober