| Told her.
She said she had her suspicions, and was only upset that I did not let her help me in my withdrawal. She reminded me back when I met her in college, the things she did, and she said she had no right to be mad at me, it made her sad though that I was going through this.
She actually warned me about the 12 step meetings(based on my personality), and felt I was on a right path. I told her I wanted to continue going to meetings, which she does not have a problem with either. She was more surprised to find out how i got to stop hanging out with my best friend, but agreed with me 100% on my handling of it.
It is such a relief to get this out in the open with her. She does not wish to go to meetings with me (at least at this time) and I will not force her to.
The wedding date is still set for next may, but with 100% open honesty. I really never expected to tell her this soon but last night's meeting and dinner really inspired me to.
Thank you for those who have supported and encouraged me to make this final decision. - Chris
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05-19-2007, 09:42 PM
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