Message Boards and Forums Directory

Go Back   SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information > Alcoholism Information > Alcoholism-12 Step Support > Step Study > Step 3
Forgot Password? Join Us!
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar Arcade Mark Forums Read Chat Room [3]


Welcome to the Sober Recovery Community

Already registered? Login above ---^

OR

To take advantage of all the site’s features, become a member of the supportive Sober Recovery Community. Ads will no longer appear on the forums if you are a registered user



Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 12-11-2007, 12:32 PM   #1 (permalink)
Life the gift of recovery!
 
nandm's Avatar
 

Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Home is where the heart is
Posts: 6,579
Step 3-----thoughts

What is Step Three about?

Quote:
"Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood him."

Step Two was the springboard for spiritual awakening. Now, in Step Three, we are poised for that dive into the bottomless pool of trust where we begin practicing a belief we are not even sure we have.

Day by day, we will examine this step in all of its implications and ramifications. We will probably experience some doubt and skepticism about our ability to truly surrender our will and our lives to the unknown.

But we can not have come this far without feeling that there have been some subtle cahnges in our attitudesa and reactions. Before we're through, we'll experience even more of these behavioral and attidudinal changes.

Step By Step, Daily meditations for living the Twelve Steps. By Muriel Zink
__________________
NOTE: All BB quotes are from the 1st Edition of the Big Book
Depression is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of being too strong for too long.
nandm is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 12-11-2007, 12:35 PM   #2 (permalink)
Life the gift of recovery!
 
nandm's Avatar
 

Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Home is where the heart is
Posts: 6,579
My experience with Step Three is that it was the springboard for opening my eyes to the spiritual experience. When I let go and prayed the Third Step prayer it allowed opened the door to increased willingness, hope, and strength.

What are your experiences with Step Three?
How did Step Three change your thoughts, behaviors, and/or life?
__________________
NOTE: All BB quotes are from the 1st Edition of the Big Book
Depression is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of being too strong for too long.
nandm is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 12-19-2007, 12:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Boston MA
Posts: 190
Quote:
Originally Posted by nandm View Post
My experience with Step Three is that it was the springboard for opening my eyes to the spiritual experience. When I let go and prayed the Third Step prayer it allowed opened the door to increased willingness, hope, and strength.

What are your experiences with Step Three?
How did Step Three change your thoughts, behaviors, and/or life?
It was a ballistic experience.
Someone explained it to me, because I had been an ardent atheist I had been holding back for decades. Like stretching an elastic, the more you pull it back the greater the release.

Notice in Bills story, he was "catapulted" into the spiritual realm.

Whereas later in the book "we have been rocketed...".

It changed everything.
savoy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 12-19-2007, 12:44 PM   #4 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: anomaly
Posts: 2,181
Willingness.

Not turning my will and life over to others..humans arn't GOD
as i understand it..but some people play god.
This step distinguish AA from a cult
The answer is in tradition #3.

It was a simple suggestion Ebby made to BW.
Freedom.
"why don't you just choose a god of your understanding"
AA's foundation. A program of suggestions, not rules.

As long as I have a desire to reach out to god..there it is.

Faith.
I can make decisions all day long in my head.
I have faith already i was born with it...an awakening of sorts.

How do you know if you turned you will over to GOD if
you're working the 12 steps ???
mmm...working the rest of the 12 steps...into actions
and following Faith.
SaTiT is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 10-21-2009, 09:35 PM   #5 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: greensboro nc
Posts: 15
This is the step that I'm on...next is that "moral inventory" I needa make...so I'll just stay on this step for awhile! jk!
ibana27 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:32 AM.


 
National Drug and Alcohol Treatment Centers
 
Drug Rehab | Best Treatment Center | Detox Center | Treatment Center | Cocaine Treatment | Alcohol Rehab | Heroin Treatment Center | Oxycontin Treatment Center | Crystal Meth Treatment
 
Local Treatment Resources and Events
 
Alabama | Alaska | Arizona | Arkansas | California | Colorado | Connecticut | DC | Delaware | Florida | Georgia | Hawaii | Idaho | Illinois | Indiana | Iowa | Kansas Kentucky | Louisiana | Maine | Maryland | Massachusetts | Michigan | Minnesota | Mississippi Missouri | Montana | Nebraska | Nevada | New Hampshire
New Jersey | New Mexico | New York | North Carolina | North Dakota Ohio | Oklahoma | Oregon | Pennsylvania | Rhode Island | South Carolina | South Dakota Tennesee | Texas Utah | Vermont Virginia | Washington | West Virginia | Wisconsin | Wyoming

© 2011 Recovery Marketing Services, Inc.
A proud member of the SoberRecovery® Network of Addiction and Recovery Websites

The SoberRecovery Forums are operated under an anonymous grant and is maintained by MyNew Technologies Development


1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112