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Old 05-16-2008, 04:11 AM   #26 (permalink)
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wow indie, the more love, the bigger the heart...
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Old 05-16-2008, 08:18 AM   #27 (permalink)
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Old 05-17-2008, 11:27 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Totality Not Perfection
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The very idea of perfectionism drives people crazy. The perfectionist is bound to be a neurotic, he cannot enjoy life till he is perfect. And perfection as such never happens, it is not in the nature of things. Totality is possible, perfection is not possible.

There is a tremendous difference between perfection and totality. Perfection is a goal somewhere in the future, totality is an experience herenow. Totality is not a goal, it is a style of life. If you can get into any act with your whole heart, you are total. Totality brings wholeness and totality brings health and totality brings sanity.

The perfectionist completely forgets about totality. He has some idea how he should be, and obviously time will be needed to reach that idea. It can't happen now -- tomorrow, day after tomorrow, this life, maybe next life ... so life has to be postponed.

But if you have an idea what you want to be in the future, today you will live very partially because your main concern becomes the future. Your eyes become focused on the future, you lose contact with the real and the present -- and the tomorrow will be born out of the real with which you are not in contact. The tomorrow will come out of today, and today was unlived.

The English word devil is very beautiful. If you read it backwards it becomes lived. That which is lived becomes divine, and that which is not lived becomes devil. Only the lived is transformed into godliness; the unlived turns poisonous. Today you postpone, and whatsoever remains unlived in you will hang around you like a weight. If you had lived it you would have been free of it.

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Old 05-17-2008, 06:59 PM   #29 (permalink)
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to strive towards perfection is ok, just dont get anal about it!

took me a long time to get that bit!

what a waist of energy...

got it now tho!

sheesh!
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Old 05-18-2008, 07:19 AM   #30 (permalink)
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Sara Paddison, The Hidden Power of the Heart
Being vulnerable doesn't have to be threatening. Just have the courage to be sincere, open and honest. This opens the door to deeper communication all around. It creates self-empowerment and the kind of connections with others we all want in life. Speaking from the heart frees us from the secrets that burden us. These secrets are what make us sick or fearful. Speaking truth helps you get clarity on your real heart directives.
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Old 05-19-2008, 02:20 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Internal and external are ultimately one. When you no longer perceive the world as hostile, there is no more fear, and when there is no more fear, you think, speak and act differently. Love and compassion arise, and they affect the world.
Eckhart Tolle - World - Love - Spiritual - Thinking - Fear - Compassion
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Old 05-20-2008, 09:31 AM   #32 (permalink)
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Even when you think you have your life all mapped out, things happen that shape your destiny in ways you might never have imagined.
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Old 05-20-2008, 07:55 PM   #33 (permalink)
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I like to say..."I make my plans...then my Higher Power just laughs at them!"

It is never what I think..I shortchange myself with negativism so often...

It is usually so much better than I ever would have dreamed....

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Old 05-21-2008, 03:38 AM   #34 (permalink)
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Even when you think you have your life all mapped out, things happen that shape your destiny in ways you might never have imagined.
I am never sorry for how things turn out anymore. I have learned to trust that all is as it should be and that even if my plans go awry, God has a better plan most times. I wouldn't be in the good place I am today if MY plans had all unfolded the way I mapped them out. Life is more interesting, sometimes, without a map and when I just show up and let life happen.

Thanks, Annie, for this reminder.
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Old 05-21-2008, 04:15 AM   #35 (permalink)
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when i have plan "A"

God hands me plan "B-Z"
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Old 05-21-2008, 06:11 AM   #36 (permalink)
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How right you all are.
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Old 05-21-2008, 06:23 AM   #37 (permalink)
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Anne Morrow Lindbergh:
If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.
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Old 05-21-2008, 06:32 PM   #38 (permalink)
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heres a spin on that indie...

"You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him."

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Old 05-22-2008, 06:41 AM   #39 (permalink)
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SMILE
By Craig Nicholson
Writer, inspirational speaker, pilot and
the author of wholesomebalance.com


Smile,
Awhile.
Why not?
Forgot?
Give yourself a moment's rest.
Smiling helps us be our best.
Not allowing outside things,
To get us down, or clip our wings.
For we are children of the One,
So don't deprive yourself true fun
For in it's spirit we can be
Victors for eternity.
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Sara Paddison, The Hidden Power of the Heart
Being vulnerable doesn't have to be threatening. Just have the courage to be sincere, open and honest. This opens the door to deeper communication all around. It creates self-empowerment and the kind of connections with others we all want in life. Speaking from the heart frees us from the secrets that burden us. These secrets are what make us sick or fearful. Speaking truth helps you get clarity on your real heart directives.
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Old 05-23-2008, 06:40 PM   #41 (permalink)
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indie, i remember to this day...

the first time i truely became vulnerable, was the day that i became me!

and you know who that was with?

our miracal, trish...

i always thank her for that!
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Old 05-23-2008, 07:32 PM   #42 (permalink)
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That must have been true love Mr. P...the ability to be yourelf..the real

you...with another person.

How terrribly sweet and precious.
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Old 05-25-2008, 06:33 AM   #43 (permalink)
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How wonderful Pattee Trish touched so many hearts and she is still doing so.

TO BELIEVE...
By Author Unknown


To believe is to know that every day
is a new beginning.

It is to trust that miracles happen,
and dreams really do come true.

To believe is to see angels dancing among the clouds,
To know the wonder of a stardust sky
and the wisdom of the man in the moon.

To believe is to know the value of a nurturing heart,
The innocence of a child's eyes
and the beauty of an aging hand,
for it is through their teachings we learn to love.

To believe is to find the strength
and courage that lies within us,
When it is time to pick up the pieces and begin again.

To believe is to know we are not alone,
That life is a gift and this is our time to cherish it.

To believe is to know that wonderful surprises
are just waiting to happen,
And all our hopes and dreams are within reach.

If only we believe.
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I love this hymn

The text of Sebastian Temple's hymn, also known as "Prayer of St. Francis":

Make me a channel of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me bring your love.
Where there is injury, your pardon, Lord.
And where there's doubt, true faith in you.

Make me a channel of your peace.
Where there's despair in life, let me bring hope.
Where there is darkness, only light.
And where there's sadness, ever joy.

Oh, Master grant that I may never seek
So much to be consoled as to console,
To be understood as to understand,
To be loved, as to love with all my soul.

Make me a channel of your peace.
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
In giving to all men that we receive,
And in dying that we are born to eternal life.
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I love that too, Annie.
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That is my most favorite too
Thank You Sweet Annie
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Doubt sees the obstacles
Faith sees the way
Doubt sees the darkest night
Faith sees the day
Doubt dreads to take a step
Faith soars on high.
Doubt questions 'who believes?'
Faith answers, 'I.'
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All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them.
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Oh, Master grant that I may never seek
So much to be consoled as to console,
To be understood as to understand,
To be loved, as to love with all my soul.

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