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Old 05-27-2017, 08:11 AM
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Shaky but determined

Day 1 after 2 years daily drinking. Hit it really hard last week and decided enough is enough. Stopped a few times before (longest 8 months). But fell for the 'I'm cured so can drink like a normal person' con. Not looking forward to tonight, but determined to beat if for good this time.
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Old 05-27-2017, 08:32 AM
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Great that you're sounding so determined Steve. You know you can do it, now you just need to do it. I hope tonight goes ok. Stay close to this site. Sending you lots of positive vibes. Good luck
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Old 05-27-2017, 08:34 AM
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Hi Steve,

Welcome to SR. I've been through the "now I'm cured, I can drink again" after abstaining for a long period of time too. Now we know, right?

As you know, the first few days are the hardest. Hang in there, keep yourself hydrated, eat, sleep and push through the urges. I found that staying close to SR helped. There's a lot of support here...use it!

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Old 05-27-2017, 09:01 AM
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Nice one Steve! If you have previous sober time you know you can do this.

This is my first serious attempt at sobriety so every time someone reminds me of "con" of going back, it's a little easier to dismiss any lingering doubts. Thanks.
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Old 05-27-2017, 10:27 AM
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Yip - don't underestimate the con!

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Nice one Steve! If you have previous sober time you know you can do this.

This is my first serious attempt at sobriety so every time someone reminds me of "con" of going back, it's a little easier to dismiss any lingering doubts. Thanks.
Been sober 4 times in my 40's (normally about a month or so - other than the 8 month one). Every time was the same - 'I can just have a beer at the weekend etc'. Then back to nightly drinking (usually more than before) until having to go through another painful withdrawal. So yes - don't listen to any doubts, or you get dragged back in.
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Old 05-27-2017, 10:35 AM
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It can be done Steve. Keep posting here regularly so that you don't forget why you came here in the first place. The con needs to be untrained. You can do it OK.
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Old 05-27-2017, 05:17 PM
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Old 05-27-2017, 05:22 PM
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Stop now and you'll feel good about yourself in the morning.
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Old 05-27-2017, 05:42 PM
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Welcome to the family. I had 20 yrs sober and wrecked it in 07 when I started drinking again. It took me about two years to finally get sober for good again.

I hope our support can help you get and stay sober for good.
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Old 05-27-2017, 06:09 PM
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Great to have you here, Steve. The daily encouragement will really help you.
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