Help why am i attracted to older men
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The older man conversations always remind me of this scene from Big Daddy.
Big Daddy - Loose Skin & Old Balls
My only experience is that both of my BILs are married to women much older, 15 and 20 years older than them. While their wives are much younger than their mom and don't resemble her physically my BILs are definitely with women whose personalities resemble their mom's personality. Strong willed and domineering (my husband found the same personality traits in me although I'm 4 years younger than he is, he lucked out
). At this stage in the game age generally doesn't have any bearing on someone's maturity.
Big Daddy - Loose Skin & Old Balls
My only experience is that both of my BILs are married to women much older, 15 and 20 years older than them. While their wives are much younger than their mom and don't resemble her physically my BILs are definitely with women whose personalities resemble their mom's personality. Strong willed and domineering (my husband found the same personality traits in me although I'm 4 years younger than he is, he lucked out
). At this stage in the game age generally doesn't have any bearing on someone's maturity.
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I wouldn't worry about it. My husband is 20 years older than I am. I'm attracted to older men too. Maybe it's the life experience, maturity, whatever, but it doesn't really matter, does it? We are who we are. As other people pointed out, I'd worry only if you're only attracted to emotionally unhealthy people.
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Why am I attracted to masculine women -- aka butches? (think KD Lang..sigh).
Desire is what it is. Once I stopped questioning and started accepting this innate pull toward a certain "type" of person, life became a lot easier (and more interesting!).
As long as it's not harmful for you or the object(s) of your affection, I see no harm.
So, enjoy feeling this wonderful part of life -- physical attraction is a grand part of life.
Desire is what it is. Once I stopped questioning and started accepting this innate pull toward a certain "type" of person, life became a lot easier (and more interesting!).
As long as it's not harmful for you or the object(s) of your affection, I see no harm.
So, enjoy feeling this wonderful part of life -- physical attraction is a grand part of life.
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