Exes - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

ru4outoo · 09-01-2005, 04:00 PM

I have been divorced from my ex for many years, we are both alchoholics, I have been sober for a few months now and she is in the same meetings as me. My feelings towards her have come back and i cant stop thinking about her. Our divorce was not a messy one. My question is is there a chance for us or should i drop these thaughts?

FaeryQueen · 09-01-2005, 04:04 PM

Do you have a sponsor? If not get one!! Talk to him about the situation. Who knows what could happen....but for now "seek the kingdom first"....so to speak!

Good Luck and Congrats on your sobriety!

journeygal · 09-01-2005, 04:39 PM

Well, they say wait a year before making any relationship changes. I agree that talking to your sponsor is a good idea. There's always a chance things could work out but your recovery should come first. Whatever you do, take it slow.

bikerprincess · 09-08-2005, 09:19 AM

Yeah....Feelings.

My feelings were all over the place for the first year.

Sponsor = Good answer.

You might have to wait this one out a bit. Work hard on your program, then see how you feel. No need rushing. You have your whole life!!!

Blessings
Anne

09-01-2005, 04:00 PM	#1 (permalink)
ru4outoo Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 243	Exes I have been divorced from my ex for many years, we are both alchoholics, I have been sober for a few months now and she is in the same meetings as me. My feelings towards her have come back and i cant stop thinking about her. Our divorce was not a messy one. My question is is there a chance for us or should i drop these thaughts?

09-01-2005, 04:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
journeygal believer Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: walking in faith Posts: 1,023	Well, they say wait a year before making any relationship changes. I agree that talking to your sponsor is a good idea. There's always a chance things could work out but your recovery should come first. Whatever you do, take it slow. __________________ Whether they find recovery or not, we survive...and then we thrive. ~Gabe

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

09-01-2005, 04:04 PM	#2 (permalink)
FaeryQueen Dreamlike...Now Join Date: May 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 707	Do you have a sponsor? If not get one!! Talk to him about the situation. Who knows what could happen....but for now "seek the kingdom first"....so to speak! Good Luck and Congrats on your sobriety!

09-08-2005, 09:19 AM	#4 (permalink)
bikerprincess Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: St Louis, MO Posts: 189	Yeah....Feelings. My feelings were all over the place for the first year. Sponsor = Good answer. You might have to wait this one out a bit. Work hard on your program, then see how you feel. No need rushing. You have your whole life!!! Blessings Anne

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)