I Dont Understand!!!!!

[trevors1]

my wife is in denial with her addiction, and continues to call me blaming me of of our broken marriage, it hasnt been that long since we split, and playing mind games with me, its not my fault will she ever see this, and wake up from the dream world she is living in, and see the truth. I am trying to understand but having a hard time to relate to hear way of thinking. all i want is some honesty just once or is that way to much to ask of her, iam so confused!!!

[smoke gets in my eyes]

Honesty is never too much to ask for. However, it is often too much to expect. Come and visit with us on the naranon of friends&family of alcoholics forums. You'll find yourself in the company of lots of folks who found themselves asking the very same questions. And you can read about how they've managed to get on with their lives and get some psyber hugs.

Hugs (see?),
Smoke

[Tiro]

As long a she is in denial she may continue to blame you.

What is important is that you do not take on any of her blame game crap.

You were there when the split came,you should know where you went wrong and what your part was in it.Work on your own stuff and don't let her drag you around with her's.