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brat1966 · 12-21-2004, 06:47 PM

GGGGGRRRRRR ok... hubby out of jail and under house arrest with a teather foor the next 76 LONG days. Thinking I rather enjoyed the 15 days he was gone..... Friday was great.. sat and was ok. sunday I wanted to claw his eyes out.... Monday wasnt too bad.. and today I want to go dig a hole and kick his butt in it.. He's not drinking at all.... but god good he has the attitude from somewhere else.... tells me I need to call or I need to do.. well I don't need to call or do ant thing.. HE DID THIS NOT ME... ok had to scream it sorry.... He stopped at a store and bought 60.00 worth of porn movies.. and don't know why I am furious... that could have paid one of they many bills of the 30+ grand he costed us for a one night break in sobrity benge..... Then he asks where is the recipt.. I dunno never seen it.. so he's off and talknig loud.. well you knew I spent 60.00 on them.. so I snaped back.. well the big yellow tag that said 19.99 on each of them was hard to miss.... ggggrrr.. ok I got it out.. thanks,,,

one more thing.. any one ever have a scram alcohol teather??
there are 3 lights yellow red and green.....
i was on the phone and kept dialing out so i hung up... I never seen the green light on and now its been on all day.. dose that mean there tracking him...
ok thanks gotta run
brat

liveweyerd · 12-21-2004, 09:04 PM

If he gets too far away from the system it will alert the police.

The upside of this is you can go for a long walk outside the range of it and he can't join you.
So you can't run him off at any time, but he can't run after you anytime either.

Which to me means you don't have to listen to that crap. You can go somewhere pleasant.

ismchanger · 12-23-2004, 11:22 AM

Does he have a program going or not? He ought to, because following a program of recovery and getting humble in the process (which God will grant, IF he's willing)are the only things that will get him on track to becoming a tolerable human being.

Let him know that you'd be happy to have AA's come over and have meetings with him. Ask him to contact the local AA office and request some 12th-step assistance. It always helps a person's sanity to be in meetings. Perhaps you ought to find some Al-Anon meetings to attend for your sanity.

And unless you two watch the porn together, tell him it's unacceptable. (But that is my view...)

Merry Christmas!

12-21-2004, 06:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
brat1966 a patient wife Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: any where usa Posts: 9	home 4 days ready to choke him..... GGGGGRRRRRR ok... hubby out of jail and under house arrest with a teather foor the next 76 LONG days. Thinking I rather enjoyed the 15 days he was gone..... Friday was great.. sat and was ok. sunday I wanted to claw his eyes out.... Monday wasnt too bad.. and today I want to go dig a hole and kick his butt in it.. He's not drinking at all.... but god good he has the attitude from somewhere else.... tells me I need to call or I need to do.. well I don't need to call or do ant thing.. HE DID THIS NOT ME... ok had to scream it sorry.... He stopped at a store and bought 60.00 worth of porn movies.. and don't know why I am furious... that could have paid one of they many bills of the 30+ grand he costed us for a one night break in sobrity benge..... Then he asks where is the recipt.. I dunno never seen it.. so he's off and talknig loud.. well you knew I spent 60.00 on them.. so I snaped back.. well the big yellow tag that said 19.99 on each of them was hard to miss.... ggggrrr.. ok I got it out.. thanks,,, one more thing.. any one ever have a scram alcohol teather?? there are 3 lights yellow red and green..... i was on the phone and kept dialing out so i hung up... I never seen the green light on and now its been on all day.. dose that mean there tracking him... ok thanks gotta run brat __________________ Have Patience.. All things are Difficult..... before they become Easy! :lumpy Nothing beats a failure, but a Try

12-21-2004, 09:04 PM	#2 (permalink)
liveweyerd Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: central Florida Posts: 7,213 Blog Entries: 5	If he gets too far away from the system it will alert the police. The upside of this is you can go for a long walk outside the range of it and he can't join you. So you can't run him off at any time, but he can't run after you anytime either. Which to me means you don't have to listen to that crap. You can go somewhere pleasant. __________________ Each small candle lights a corner of the dark....Roger Waters

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12-23-2004, 11:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
ismchanger Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Santa Barbara, CA Posts: 27	Does he have a program going or not? He ought to, because following a program of recovery and getting humble in the process (which God will grant, IF he's willing)are the only things that will get him on track to becoming a tolerable human being. Let him know that you'd be happy to have AA's come over and have meetings with him. Ask him to contact the local AA office and request some 12th-step assistance. It always helps a person's sanity to be in meetings. Perhaps you ought to find some Al-Anon meetings to attend for your sanity. And unless you two watch the porn together, tell him it's unacceptable. (But that is my view...) Merry Christmas!

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