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Onewithwings · 01-24-2012, 01:09 PM

My friend. He has a girlfriend. I feel responsible, I shouldn't have let it happen. I am not that kind of girl. If I know you are in a committed relationship, I won't mess with you. But he kissed me, and I let it happen. It was a quick kiss, and he stopped when it hit him what he was doing. He loves his girlfriend though. I want no part in breaking anyone up, know what I mean? It's not like we had sex or even were making out or anything, but he was on thin ice already over some other stuff and I don't want this to be the straw that breaks the camel's back. I just feel really crappy right now.

doggonecarl · 01-26-2012, 11:22 AM

You caught yourself, you feel bad. Sounds like your moral compass is still pointing north. He's the one with the GF. Don't fret about too long. And don't put yourself into a situation where he can try this again.

Onewithwings · 01-26-2012, 04:10 PM

Yeah he's not "allowed" around girls alone anymore. I don't necessarily agree with people in a relationship telling the other who they can and can't be around, but he agreed to it, so I guess that's their business. In any case, he won't be over here without a third party present anymore, just in case.

01-24-2012, 01:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
Onewithwings Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Tucson, AZ Posts: 628	He kissed me. My friend. He has a girlfriend. I feel responsible, I shouldn't have let it happen. I am not that kind of girl. If I know you are in a committed relationship, I won't mess with you. But he kissed me, and I let it happen. It was a quick kiss, and he stopped when it hit him what he was doing. He loves his girlfriend though. I want no part in breaking anyone up, know what I mean? It's not like we had sex or even were making out or anything, but he was on thin ice already over some other stuff and I don't want this to be the straw that breaks the camel's back. I just feel really crappy right now. __________________ Addict, Aspie, Mother, Painter *"Denial is a warm, thick blanket, and you're naked underneath." --My Brain!*

01-26-2012, 04:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
Onewithwings Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Tucson, AZ Posts: 628	Yeah he's not "allowed" around girls alone anymore. I don't necessarily agree with people in a relationship telling the other who they can and can't be around, but he agreed to it, so I guess that's their business. In any case, he won't be over here without a third party present anymore, just in case. __________________ Addict, Aspie, Mother, Painter *"Denial is a warm, thick blanket, and you're naked underneath." --My Brain!*

01-26-2012, 11:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
doggonecarl Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Norfolk, VA Posts: 2,724 Blog Entries: 21	You caught yourself, you feel bad. Sounds like your moral compass is still pointing north. He's the one with the GF. Don't fret about too long. And don't put yourself into a situation where he can try this again.

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