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09-28-2009, 10:48 PM
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| 9/15/08  Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: eastern Kansas
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| Got dumped today
Man, I didn't even see it coming. Was with her for nine months. Was depressed for a while, but fortunately I'm not craving or wanting to drink. I figured this is the kind of stuff that would typically blindside me when I was drinking/using....but after a year of sobriety?! Funny how the long-term effects of alcoholism can blunt the emotions and awareness of others feelings. It totally caught me off guard, but I'm trying to see it as a positive. Ugh... 
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09-29-2009, 05:54 PM
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Forgot to buy her a birthday gift.  Been so preoccupied with school, work, and sobriety that it totally went over my head. Guess that's why they say to stay out of reltionships for a while during recovery.
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09-29-2009, 07:16 PM
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| July 25, 2009  Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Thornton, CO
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Sounds like she wasn't worth your time then if she'd dump you over something like that. There must be something else going on with her. Maybe I don't know enough about relationships, but that seems like a total B.S. reason to break up with someone after nine months. I know birthdays and anniversaries are important to women, but it seems like if she really liked or loved you, she could let that one slide. You deserve someone who will value you more than that and not be so superficial.
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09-30-2009, 05:24 PM
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Thanks Clay...and yes, I think there are other issues going on with her. I don't need that stuff in my life right now anyway. 
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