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| Guest Join Date: May 2009
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| wanting to quit smoking...
it's only been a week since i quit drinking, and eventually i would like to quit smoking. my concern is that it currently provides me with a very reliable coping mechanism, albeit not the healthiest of choicces. i've smoked for close to fifteen years, and currently smoke nearly a pack a day. am i expecting too much of myself to try to kick nicotine this early in my alcoholism recovery process? i see it as my next step to being more healthy and increasing my vitality. how soon did others quit nicotine and tobacco after they quit their alcohol or narcotic? what steps did you take? did quitting tobacco make it more difficult to stay clear of your primary addiction? thank you in advance? bh |
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Hi brokenhalo, Welcome!! There seems to be two schools of thought on the subject. Personally I think it depends a whole lot on the individual and their comfort zone. I started smoking in recovery and quit around a year later. Getting the support here worked wonders for me and it was easier than expected. My feet were firmly planted in sobriety when I quit however. For me personally if I had smoked going into recovery I definitely would not have tried to quit at one week. I would have felt safer doing it immediately than at one week. My mind was not ready for another major change at one week after just accepting quitting another substance. Quitting when I was firmly in sobriety worked well for me. |
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Hi brokenhalo... I don't really have any advice but I do want to say congratulations on your new sobriety. Great job !! Keep going !!
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| To Thine Own Self Be True Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: So Cal
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Hi brokenhalo! I have been sober for 14 months. Yesterday was my first smoke free day. ![]() My sponsor suggested waiting, up to as long as a year until I quit smoking. I did not disagree. My only suggestion is that you are very solid in recovery. Give yourself the best chance at success for both. This is my opinion. I have smoked off and on for 24 years, more on than off. I am started taking Wellbutrin a week ago. Cigarettes started tasting different, kinda gross a couple days ago. The habit is hard to break though. But I am trying to treat it like I do drinking, it is not an option. I will not drink no matter what and now, I will not smoke, no matter what. Wish me luck and I am here to support you when you are ready! |
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My best wishes to all of you on keeping up the quit! We have a Daily Check-In here on SR, I hope you'll join in and post your progress http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...rt-viii-3.html (Daily Check-in Part VIII...)
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Congratulations on a week sober!!!! I was nowhere near ready to quit the cigarettes when I was new to recovery. I decided I would "try" at one year clean, but I wasn't ready then either. For some reason, shortly after having 2 years clean, I was ready to quit smoking and I did. Honestly, I think it's an individual thing. When I was ready to quit, I was ready. I did try a year before, and I was just angry at the world and only made it two weeks. So, if you think you are ready to quit and it won't hurt your recovery, go for it. If you aren't sure you're ready and you still need that crutch, even though it's not the healthiest thing, many of us have done it to get through early recovery then tackled the smoking...do what's best for you. Hugs and prayers! Amy
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One thing at a time, BH. I too am addicted to the ciggies. I simply couldn't toss the ciggies and the bottles out all in the same run. I figured it'd leave me rocking naked in the corner all night if I did. So, booze goes first. When I have found a comfortable place again and am anxiety-free and have a certain level of strength and confidence rebuilt; the ciggies will go. But for now I am proud I got rid of one vice. They went so well hand in hand, you know. Glass of wine and a ciggie. Without one, I am hoping the other may wither and die. Take it easy, you're just into your 2nd week like me. Take it slow... |
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I think it depends on the individual. I never felt "sober" when I smoked. I certainly didn't feel "clean" and sober. Nicotine is a bitch to quit, because it is a very addictive drug. There is certainly a lot of evidence toward the fact that it is the most addictive and deadly drug when taken through smoking tobacco. I think if when quitting drinking you are looking for a lifestyle total change adding smoking to the quit might be a good idea. It is certainly not recommended to smoke dope while quitting alcohol or use other substances, so I really don't see why we should hang onto smoking either. It is really to each their own. I mean we don't even have to quit drinking. I am just glad that the worst substance I now ingest is a bit of coffee. My life is certainly much better. Especially after a three mile run in the morning and enjoying the ability to breath fresh clean air without having to cough up phlem. |
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| Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA
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Congrats on quitting drinking and for your desire to give up smoking as well. I gave up Alcohol, Nicotine and Caffeine addiction simultaneously, it worked for me, I felt that if I was going to withdraw I might as well do it all at once. Of course everyone is different and you will have people give you many different stories on the matter. I found a majority of people I met at AA not very supportive of my quitting drinking and smoking concurrently (mostly because many of the people telling me not to do it are current smokers and are protecting there habit!) Of course not all people in AA were this way to me but I did have to protect myself from people that could not relate and who attempted to get me to continue to smoke to justify there continued addiction of Nicotine a mind altering chemical. I found acceptance from AA members who were also in Nicotine Anonymous, so hopefully you will find some supportive people there. For myself, Nicotine was a trigger for me to drink and drinking was a huge trigger for me to smoke. So it was only natural for me to give up both of those simultaneously. You might be interested in reading what some of the recent studies regarding quiting alcohol dependence and nicotine dependence simultaneously have been finding. From Struggling With Alcohol? Better Quit Smoking, Too - Health News - Health.com Quote:
Here is a article detailing quiting smoking and alcohol options and concerns. Smoking Cessation in Recovering Alcoholics: Fiction Versus Fact - April 15, 1998 - American Academy of Family Physicians Congratulations again and may you find much health, happiness and longevity on this new path of freedom from the bondages of chemical dependency, I know that in the past 10 months my life has been changed so much for the better. For quiting smoking resources I recommend either www.whyquit.com (FANTASTIC place with a wealth of information and very strong smo-briety) I have also spoken with many people who had great success with the late Alan Carr's book "Easy way to stop smoking" Thankfully we live in a time where the truth and dangers about smoking and tobbacco are impossible to escape, especially now that being a smoker is a being a "social-outcast" who in not welcome mostly anywhere anymore. I wish you only the best, you can totally do this! I highly recommend at least 7 minutes of moderate paced walking a day, it will help tremendously. Congrats! Thanks for letting me share.
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