Here's to my day 1
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Check in. 1 week!
I've made it a week. After about day 4 things are going well. I've been out for walks. Sat out in the garden with the cats. Made lovely home dinners. Even went to a few events around town. My husband has never been happier and my friends and family are so so supportive. As I sit here drinking my morning tea and having my oatmeal breakfast I am so grateful I am not hungover and sick. Looking forward to today. A friend is coming over for tea and a tattoo (hubby is a tattoo artist) gonna be a good day. This forum truly is a godsend. Thank you all and if I can make it a week, believe me, anyone can! Xx
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Well done. I think 1 week is the stage from where it gets noticeably better for many of us (i.e. the 1st week is the worst part).
Great to see that you have been going out as well (and, it would seem, enjoying it).
Just one little suggestion if I may - if possible, why not try to check in once a day? It might do you even more good (and, as soupcon said, many of us get a bit worried if a valued member seems to be of the radar, even for a short while
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Great to see that you have been going out as well (and, it would seem, enjoying it).
Just one little suggestion if I may - if possible, why not try to check in once a day? It might do you even more good (and, as soupcon said, many of us get a bit worried if a valued member seems to be of the radar, even for a short while
)
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Bbq potluck tonight
Have to attend a going away party for a friend. I know there will be alcohol there. I also know I haven't had any real cravings, tonight will be a test. My husband has assured me that if it gets to difficult we can just come home. That gives me comfort. I'm not sure what to bring to drink because normally it would be a bottle of wine. Hopefully they will have a tea or coffee option.
I'm off to prepare egg salad sandwiches for the party. I'll check in again shortly. Thanks everyone xx
I'm off to prepare egg salad sandwiches for the party. I'll check in again shortly. Thanks everyone xx
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Day 16
Day 16. Just checking in. I've been to several events around town and at friends places. I've done really well. My doctor has also suggested I give up caffeine. That's proven to be very difficult. My family and friends have been so awesome. I've gotta so much support since "coming out" I am feeling more happy and enjoying my life. Not just existing. I don't miss alcohol at all. Good riddance. I've noticed it doesn't bother me to be around people who are drinking. It's quite funny to watch them as the night progresses. I am thankful for this forum. I read it every night while in bed and I pray each of you find the same peace and happiness I have. 
sending love and hugs to everyone who may need it. Xoxo
sending love and hugs to everyone who may need it. Xoxo
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Originally Posted by babyedwards 
Day 16. Just checking in. I've been to several events around town and at friends places. I've done really well. My doctor has also suggested I give up caffeine. That's proven to be very difficult. My family and friends have been so awesome. I've gotta so much support since "coming out" I am feeling more happy and enjoying my life. Not just existing. I don't miss alcohol at all. Good riddance. I've noticed it doesn't bother me to be around people who are drinking. It's quite funny to watch them as the night progresses. I am thankful for this forum. I read it every night while in bed and I pray each of you find the same peace and happiness I have. sending love and hugs to everyone who may need it. Xoxo
sending love and hugs to everyone who may need it. Xoxo
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Done counting.
I've decided I'm not going to count the days anymore. To me, my sobriety is more then just a number. It's a clean house, an afternoon walk, a home cooked meal, an evening with friends, waking up hopeful for the day.
I am feeling so much better with my choice to stop drinking. My anxiety and ocd are still present but not nearly as often or as strong as they were when I was drinking daily. I can learn to properly manage and control my panic attacks and rituals in a healthy way. Change is really hard. But the paths that I've chosen in my life have lead me here. Happy, healthier, stronger and present in my life. My husband deserves all of me. I deserve all of me. I'll be here checking in from time to time. Thank you all. Prayer and strength to everyone who needs it. I'm not the best at advice but if anyone needs some encouragement please feel free to message me on here. If I can do it, you can do it! xx
I am feeling so much better with my choice to stop drinking. My anxiety and ocd are still present but not nearly as often or as strong as they were when I was drinking daily. I can learn to properly manage and control my panic attacks and rituals in a healthy way. Change is really hard. But the paths that I've chosen in my life have lead me here. Happy, healthier, stronger and present in my life. My husband deserves all of me. I deserve all of me. I'll be here checking in from time to time. Thank you all. Prayer and strength to everyone who needs it. I'm not the best at advice but if anyone needs some encouragement please feel free to message me on here. If I can do it, you can do it! xx
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