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Had a FANTASTIC day, and now really want some wine.

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Exclamation Had a FANTASTIC day, and now really want some wine.

This occurs a lot. I feel good, have a productive day, and want nothing more than to drink wine and smoke cigarettes outside with the animals feeling great about what Ive accomplished and admiring the farm and animals.

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Well, don't have any. Then you can keep on feeling great.
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yep, totally understand that...the drink is your reward, I used to do that all the time! Just gotta start a new reward system!
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How bout an icy glass of pink lemonade on the patio for a little R&R? Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.
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I learned that feeling great can be it's own reward windancer - you will too .

Just tell the inner addict to take a hike - have a great night and a great morning tomorrow - stay sober

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This was one of the biggest triggers for me... having a great day. Just because.

You'll have to retrain your brain to not give into those urges. The more you say no, the more you remind yourself that drinking is no longer an option... remind yourself of the negative consequences that do happen when you drink... the easier it gets over time.
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Windancer, rootin for ya.

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Old 07-24-2014, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Nuudawn View Post
How bout an icy glass of pink lemonade on the patio for a little R&R? Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.
omg do you have old video of me somewhere?
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Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.
Sounds familiar
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Old 07-24-2014, 05:24 PM
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Ice cream, Winday, ice cream! Better treat than booze and cigarettes.
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Yeah, but they'll both kill you. That's the problem.
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Old 07-24-2014, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Nuudawn View Post
How bout an icy glass of pink lemonade on the patio for a little R&R? Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.


Holy cow GF, way to see it until the end (of many nights of mine).
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Originally Posted by Nuudawn View Post
How bout an icy glass of pink lemonade on the patio for a little R&R? Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.
Yeah, that part of the story was left out of Cinderella.

I can relate, even a few weeks ago, after a long time of sobriety, something really great happened and BANG, right out of the blue, my endorphins started saying...."yay....let's go get some Champagne and REALLY get the party started. Yeeha, life is goooooooood".

Ummm, well, life would not be good if I did that. I kind of shook my head at myself, forgot about it and went home. But yes, never realised that happiness meant a drink for me also.
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Old 07-24-2014, 05:45 PM
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ice cream

No booze. Nope, none at all. . . don't even think about it.

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Old 07-24-2014, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Nuudawn View Post
How bout an icy glass of pink lemonade on the patio for a little R&R? Thing is...you won't lounge like a lizard there drifting into alcoholic haze for hours on end to eventually stumble round...pick a fight with your man, post incoherent blather on Facebook, eat cold chinese food from the container in front of the fridge...and then pass out in your clothes and makeup on the couch to awake tomorrow morning in shame and discontent about why ya can't freakin' quit drinking.
That was brilliant Nuudawn. Can I borrow this one too?

Windancer, Yep, don't drink tonight. I don't drink because of the hangovers. I had a really rough night last night where I was really tempted for about two minutes. It feels much better to say no. It felt good to wake up this morning. You'll feel better tomorrow. Mel.
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Old 07-24-2014, 06:25 PM
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omg do you have old video of me somewhere?
I was thinking the EXACT same thing!! Lol!!!
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Old 07-24-2014, 06:34 PM
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that fades away after a while.... gets easier.... don't do it.

You know it's a lie.
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Old 07-24-2014, 06:40 PM
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omg do you have old video of me somewhere?
I was going to ask the same exact thing!!!
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Old 07-24-2014, 06:50 PM
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Rewarding a productive day with booze is like rewarding a cleaning day with dirt, or a painting day with graffiti. No damn sense to it.

You got this.
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I think the main thing to do is stop considering alcohol to be a reward. It is not a reward or none of us would be here.
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