I want to be sober
I want to be sober
Lord, I want to be sober. I have ready the Big Book, the Bible, self-help books, etc. I know most people will say unless you are committed, it will never happen ... but what is wrong with praying.
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Prayer is the only we have left sometimes.
But try to keep in mind that god is there for you but cannot stop you from picking up the bottle. But he will walk with you and support you, but you have to make the first steps.
I am back yo day 1 myself. It not easy because of the anxiety but no way in hell I am picking up.
You got this, we both do so do our friends on SR ;-)
But try to keep in mind that god is there for you but cannot stop you from picking up the bottle. But he will walk with you and support you, but you have to make the first steps.
I am back yo day 1 myself. It not easy because of the anxiety but no way in hell I am picking up.
You got this, we both do so do our friends on SR ;-)
Nothing. If you phrase the prayer correctly.
I remember when I returned to the church, before I got sober, I'd pray to God, "Please make me sober."
Nothing happened. I kept praying, "Please, God, make me sober."
One day, in the quiet of church, I was praying to St. Joseph, the father of Jesus, thinking my father, bless his soul, wouldn't want his son to be a drunk. So I was praying, "Please, make me sober..."
..and I heard a inner voice say, "Carl, I can't make you sober. That's your job!"
From that day on, I prayed for the strength to get sober and gave prayers of thanks for being sober.
I remember when I returned to the church, before I got sober, I'd pray to God, "Please make me sober."
Nothing happened. I kept praying, "Please, God, make me sober."
One day, in the quiet of church, I was praying to St. Joseph, the father of Jesus, thinking my father, bless his soul, wouldn't want his son to be a drunk. So I was praying, "Please, make me sober..."
..and I heard a inner voice say, "Carl, I can't make you sober. That's your job!"
From that day on, I prayed for the strength to get sober and gave prayers of thanks for being sober.
Prayer can be part of any recovery plan, but it's not a solution in itself - you have to take action in conjunction with it.
I am trying ...
I have been attending meetings, sober or not. I have got days sleeping. I am sick of my drinking; I just don't know what to do when you have a car and a small amount of money. It should be a blessing, but it feels like a curse.
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Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: New York, NY
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I've been following your threads, SBS, and I'm missing the part where you're taking any meaningful action towards helping yourself. I think a more direct approach may be helpful.
The AA Big Book is no more a self-help book than is the Bible. And the problem with books that claim to be self-help books is that their target audience is people who are incapable of helping themselves.
We don't live our lives in books. You can learn all you want about alcoholism and other addictions in books, film, at AA meetings and on SR. Until you make yourself the primary agent of change in your life, until you accept the responsibility to take action as a means of ending your suffering and building a better life, all you'll have is your books and a continuing dialogue that begs the question as to why things are not getting better for you.
The AA Big Book is no more a self-help book than is the Bible. And the problem with books that claim to be self-help books is that their target audience is people who are incapable of helping themselves.
We don't live our lives in books. You can learn all you want about alcoholism and other addictions in books, film, at AA meetings and on SR. Until you make yourself the primary agent of change in your life, until you accept the responsibility to take action as a means of ending your suffering and building a better life, all you'll have is your books and a continuing dialogue that begs the question as to why things are not getting better for you.
You have the formula already. You shared it in the title of your post.
"I want to be sober"
No book can tell you more.
No prayer said in earnest can provide any more wisdom.
When I finally said I want to be sober and meant it was the last time I drank.
Does that mean its simple? ... No... But it's not any more complicated either.
You can do this with your own words.
I want to be sober.
Ken
"I want to be sober"
No book can tell you more.
No prayer said in earnest can provide any more wisdom.
When I finally said I want to be sober and meant it was the last time I drank.
Does that mean its simple? ... No... But it's not any more complicated either.
You can do this with your own words.
I want to be sober.
Ken
I know we all fear not drinking, but I am literally crying as I type this sentence. I want it so bad, but my hands keep pouring drinks. I know I CAN STOP, but my mind does something. It tricks me. It allows me to forget my problems. I don't want to die, but I already have facial cancer ... but I don't want to die drunk. I want to die with the love of my life in my arms.
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You have to start somewhere. The first day is hard but not impossible. I said a lot of foxhole prayers when I was drinking and it never worked. I needed to take action on my own and when I did things started to get better one day at a time.
You are going to have to take the first few steps, we can't do it for you. Pour out any alcohol you have left. Don't buy anymore no matter what. Don't go where it is served. I know this is frightening and hard as hell to do, but nothing has a chance to get better until you stop poisoning yourself with alcohol. After a week or so you are going to feel so much better. I really hope you can take some action today... right now.
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