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|02-07-2014, 07:48 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Southern U.S.
90 days sober
So I have three months sober and my emotions have been all over the place. Yesterday I felt good and today I just cannot even think. A meeting helped a little. Maybe getting some sleep will help. I still feel lost and I do not know who I am. Does anyone have any thoughts on early sobriety and why it is so difficult?
|02-07-2014, 08:28 PM||#2 (permalink)|
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Denver CO
Great job on 90 days. Thats fabulous. Wish I had advice. Keep doing what you have been doing
|02-07-2014, 08:34 PM||#3 (permalink)|
Join Date: Nov 2004
Journal your thoughts, read inspirational articles etc. keep busy with activities you enjoy doing. Idle time to dwell on inner thoughts can be overwhelming with the newly raw emotions you will be experiencing right now.
LIFE IS GOD'S GIFT TO YOU
WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE
IS YOUR GIFT TO GOD
J - Jesus first
O - Others next
Y - Yourself last
|02-07-2014, 08:34 PM||#4 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: North Lincolnshire, UK
Hi Acheleus, congratulations on three months
My emotions were all over the place one minute so happy and free especially being sober.
Then I could be down in the dumps. I believe it's not unusual to have these feelings.
I likened it to a metamorphis, I felt my mind changing so much and I was advised not to make any life changing decisions for a year , which I am keeping with.
On a good side it's great waking with no misgivings, regrets and hangovers. I put so much booze in my body and mind for years I guess it's not going to mend overnight xx
Sober Date Twentieth of July 2013
|02-07-2014, 08:39 PM||#5 (permalink)|
Life Health Prosperity
Join Date: Sep 2011
Acheleus, 90 days sober is FANTASTIC, congratulations. Rootin for ya.
Success is making yourself do the thing you need to do when you need to do it whether you like it or not.
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
|02-07-2014, 08:45 PM||#6 (permalink)|
Join Date: Apr 2007
I think it's difficult because most of us drank for years...it takes a little time to sort ourselves out...I really do think better times are ahead tho Ach
|02-07-2014, 08:50 PM||#7 (permalink)|
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Between Doctor's opinion & pg 164
Good job on 3 mths!!! As Captain said, I warded those feelings by workin more, going to more mtgs, talking w/ sponsor & network, eating something sweet/drinking lots of coffee etc. The sugar interestingly calmed me down & diverted my thots which in turn changed my attitude; hey whatever works right? Loh
|02-08-2014, 01:18 AM||#8 (permalink)|
Join Date: Oct 2012
Sobriety is difficult in part because it forces us to confront the things we were hiding from. At least in my case the bottle was the place I hid from my life. Now, sober, I am forced to deal with my life for the first time in many, many years...maybe the first time ever. That's difficult at times, but on some level it's exhilarating, too. Or it can be eventually.
Remember the old saying, "when you're going through hell- keep going!" There honestly is hope on the other side (with apologies for how cheesy that must sound).
I realized I could probably go on drinking like this for maybe two or three more years, or live for another two or three decades...but not both. Suddenly the choice became crystal clear.
|02-08-2014, 03:42 AM||#9 (permalink)|
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Southern U.S.
I always thought I would never be able to do the things that make me happy. Other people would be pursuing their dreams and I would drink out of bitterness and envy that I could not make a life for myself. Sometimes it scares me to think of how much work I have to do. I hope with sobriety I can be nice to myself.
|02-08-2014, 03:49 AM||#10 (permalink)|
Join Date: Apr 2013
Congrats! Three months is a LOT of time.
You are well on our way. Count your blessings, the ones money can't buy, and let the gratitude fill your heart.
God is the only one that can truly judge us and he waits until the very last second because there is always time for change.
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|02-08-2014, 08:20 AM||#11 (permalink)|
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: eastern USA
Blog Entries: 31
Congrats on three months sober! Early sobriety is a lot of ups and downs as the brain gets back to normal functioning. Give yourself time and good treatment and you'll soon be feeling better.
I'd rather live in my car with my dogs than live in a castle without them.
Dogs may not be our whole lives, but they make our lives whole.
Don't wait for the Last Judgement. It takes place every day. -Albert Camus
Find the good and praise it. - Alex Haley
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|02-08-2014, 08:38 AM||#12 (permalink)|
Join Date: Dec 2013
Location: Brooklyn, ny
You deserve to be nicer to yourself. You did a lot of hard work to get where you are. I felt similar at 90 days. I can be up and down in a matter of minutes. It will continue to get better and like Mags says, we all got to give it some time.
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|02-08-2014, 08:43 AM||#13 (permalink)|
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: New York
I was all over the place the first three months. Emotional ups and downs were the norm. It gets better ... my sleep improved and so did my attitude, along with my health.
Keep up the great work!
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|02-08-2014, 08:52 AM||#14 (permalink)|
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Baton Rouge, La.
Looking at the whole picture of the world,
life, it all would make my anxiety go thru
the roof. I had to learn with itty, bitty baby
steps and stay within the moment.
When I take a deep breath, relax for a moment
and tell myself, all I have to worry about is
just this moment. Then everything that bothers
me just melts away. A calmness comes over me.
I don't have to conquer the world all in one day.
In fact, I don't have to conquer the world at all.
To me, that is one tall order I don't have to do.
just let someone else do it. Whew...!!!!
You are special. You are worth it. You are you.
Im pretty sure you have many fine qualities within
yourself. Talents? Kindness. Caring. A gentle soul.
There's no time line to meet in life. If you stay
sober or clean this day, then you have accomplished
a whole lot. Pat urself on the back and say, I did
it. I deserve to be happy, healthy in my new sober
"A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED"
Baton Rouge, La.
I turn my will and life over to the care of a Power greater than I on a daily bases for guidance, care and protection.
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