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Old 02-03-2014, 03:25 PM
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Not all of u know my mum had a massive stroke and she is trying to get through everything especially after we were told she was on end of life pathway.
It's now been a few days since she was take off n all hell has broken loss via family n sticking up for mum
My in laws made me drink to calm one of many panic attacks n now I can't stop please help me like before I'm begging
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:28 PM
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Your in laws made you drink? Doesn't sound like a very helpful thing to do. Can you see your doctor for help in getting thru detox? It's smart to get medical help in case your w/d gets dangerous.

I hope you feel better soon and can put the bottle down again. Read your signature line.

I shall not cave in to what causes me harm and my family hurt
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:30 PM
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You don't need drink you need some more understanding.
Not suggesting u fight with the in laws though!

TRy a bit of prayer/ meditation , if that's your scene.

I'm sure you will get some worthy advice here.
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:32 PM
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Yes they made me drink k as I couldn't breathe n they thought it was best.
It's knocked me for 6 n it's so hard as when I'm with mum there is no signal. I have a lot of other family issues that km trying to resolve.
I feel so stuck I wish god would listen for once
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:34 PM
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I'm sorry things are so rough ZG - but drinking will just make things worse and make you more anxious not calm you down.

I'm sure it's not your job to solve everything...try and relax.

If you need medical help do see a Dr, otherwise....plug yourself in here...there's tons of understanding and advice here - why not join the Class of February thread for support?

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-2014-a-4.html
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:37 PM
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Sorry you are struggling.

Picking up a drink after a period of sobriety won't end well.

Can you go and see your GP?sounds like a good idea with all that you have going on right now.
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:38 PM
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I would but I've no reception in the hospital I need u guys to help me n it's tough when ur not available
I keep asking them for the password but no one cares.
I was doing so well until this torture to my mum n us
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:47 PM
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I've poured everything out the window. I'm gonna have to start again as I hate this I need to be a sober mummy
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:49 PM
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Please don't leave me guys I need u it's just so hard with virtually no access to u
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:51 PM
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Yes start again,no other choice.

Can you make a GP appointment in the morning.Try and get some sleep now.
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Old 02-03-2014, 03:54 PM
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Good job dumping out the alcohol Zombiegirl. Sorry you are having to go through this.
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Old 02-03-2014, 04:07 PM
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SR willl always be here ZG

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Old 02-03-2014, 04:31 PM
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We're here Zombiegirl. We want you sober too. Sorry about this rough patch, but you're gonna be okay. Breathe. Maybe find some quiet space? Or take a walk? I don't know, just know that tomorrow is a new day, that you can do this. It'll pass and light will return. I wish I had some magic words. Hang in there.
Sending you postive thoughts
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Old 02-03-2014, 05:14 PM
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We're here for you.

Try to take a break from the hospital for even a few minutes. Go out for a walk, or a meal. We're here.
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Old 02-03-2014, 05:19 PM
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Taking a break/ a walk helps me sometimes in general. Temporarily removing oneself from the situation.
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Old 02-03-2014, 05:48 PM
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I hope things work out for you. Thank you for posting.
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Old 02-03-2014, 08:31 PM
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I hope they do too. Just feel my family are always been punished.
I need to sort myself out I hate myself not sober as I'm an idiot.
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Old 02-03-2014, 08:36 PM
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Personally I don't believe in a punishing God like that.
Bad things happen in life ZG, but good things happen too.

you're not an idiot - you can get back on the right road

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