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06-04-2009, 09:18 AM
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Good going on 3 days! That's about when my body and mind started to feel better. You got 10 hours of sleep, so you're actually ahead of me. I'm still only managing 7. Maybe that'll turn out to be normal for me? Had fun at my Happy Hour last night. One non-drinker canceled and another friend brought 4 people with her. All drinkers. It oddly enough didn't phase me a bit. Another bonus re: not drinking = No tab! As I started to leave I went to put down money for my coffee, others shooed me and said don't worry, I've got it... Normally I'd have a drink or 2 at $14 a pop. With tax and tip, it could end up pretty pricey! I got to drive home instead of taking a cab and then I went to the gym instead of buying more alcohol as I normally would have done. This morning I'm fresh and rested instead of sprawled out, moaning on the couch. All very good things. I dig this! 12 days behind me now! Feeling like this is a start of a new life that I'm enjoying very much! Hope all is well! |
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06-04-2009, 10:27 AM
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| Member  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Birmingham, England
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14 bucks a drink. What were you drinking? | |
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06-04-2009, 10:56 AM
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06-04-2009, 01:06 PM
| #107 (permalink) |
| Member  Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Road to recovery
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My 2 cents: Early on I was open with one close drinking buddie because I knew he wouldn't be pressuring me to drink - he'd leave it up to me. With others I just didn't hang where it would be an issue but I'm ok most of the time now. Have even gone to bars with them on rare occasions and seen the humor and the sadness of drunks. Really depends where your head is at on any given day. There will be times when this change will be rough, you have to expect that. We live in a society where it's everywhere. You can make it through. Just put in the time and it will pay off. Thanks for the kind words about my post. |
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06-04-2009, 01:21 PM
| #108 (permalink) |
| Member  Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Ohio
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Hello fellow Junebugs  I'm still here...lol. I'm doing a quick check in, right now I'm making a (Hello Kitty) Birthday card for my nieces birthday that's just around the corner. The card is turning out really cute...I just love crafts, it makes for good therapy I'm also thinking about going for a ride on my scooter....I don't know yet, still deciding. I'm still hanging in there...Day 4 and ready for some more....OK, so I don't know how to rhyme very well...lol. Spen-I'm soo happy to hear that you finally got some sleep....just hop in the shower, you will probably feel better...Good for you on Day 4...keep em' coming Cham-Glad you made it back home safe, sound and sober...thanks for letting us know. You sound like your successfully beating this demon of ours....Hang in there, you know we have your back. LivLaphLuv-Thank you for checking in again....You Rock on with your bad self and continue on with what you are doing. Your heading in the right direction and we're here to back you up...I'm sure I will be on here tomorrow (Friday) as well, see you then. Jade-Thank you for checking in too...Prayers are coming your way as I type this. I will be thinking about you as you are having your busy weekend. Just remember the JuneBugs are here rooting for you....Go Jade Go!!!! LilyMarie & Keepcominback-How are you two doing? I hope everything is OK? Please check in when you have the time...if you need to talk, we are here with open arms. If I missed anyone, I truly apologize.... Well I'm off for now and I will back in a little while, Wuv you guys... Lot's of hugs, XOXO Remember: Stay strong, we can do this together!!! God Bless!!! |
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06-04-2009, 01:36 PM
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| Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Ohio
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Hi Joinedintime  I'm sorry, I just seen your post above mine.... I liked what you said about, just put in the time and it will pay off. Also, Ditto on your post....I totally agree with all of what you said. Thank you for your insight and for letting me know what to expect....I just need to remember this Take care and God Bless!!! Hugs, XOXO |
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06-04-2009, 02:35 PM
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Hello! Here I am! *waves* Work has been just very busy and stressful and I haven't had time to check in as much as I'd like. Things are going well (minus the work-stress, but the plus side to that, is I wouldn't have time to drink even if I really wanted to) but my weekend starts tomorrow morning and it's always the time I start getting nervous. The temptation to drink always seems to come out of nowhere when the weekend hits. So I plan to spend lots of time in the country outdoors, and enjoy some of this *omg it's finally June* weather. Hope everyone is doing well! I have a lot to catch up on this thread. |
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06-04-2009, 02:46 PM
| #111 (permalink) | |
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06-04-2009, 02:52 PM
| #112 (permalink) |
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Thanks ADAT! But really, I don't even kinda have this beat! It's been fine so far. So much so that I worry I'm getting off too easy and just waiting for storm. Trying not to borrow trouble though! I just took a 6 mile walk. Jeesh! Had to go buy tickets for our group to do a local summer concert series. I'm a little sad that I won't be able to have a couple of glasses of wine at the concerts. But, such is life. Alcohol is a privilege. I abused that privilege and now I've lost my privileges. That's kinda how I look at it. |
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06-04-2009, 03:23 PM
| #113 (permalink) |
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Hope we are all well. Decided I am going to start in the gym from Monday. I felt better as the day as gone on. Did a couple of hours of my business and even though I sweated a bit it was not too bad. Just GOT to get through the weekend as that has always been my downfall. Once I start I cannot stop.
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06-05-2009, 08:50 AM
| #114 (permalink) |
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Good Morning all! Everything's fine here. It's raining. What?!! It never rains here in June. But I guess 'never' is the wrong word. Oh well, my car is awfully dusty so, cool! Spen - I hope you consider going to that Saturday meeting you mentioned. I know you said you wanted to work on your side business. But heck, if you start drinking, you won't get any work done anyway. Please think about it, ok? Hope all is well! |
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06-05-2009, 10:19 AM
| #119 (permalink) |
| Member  Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Mississippi
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Hello everyone! I just saw this thread today and decided to join in on the fun. I'm currently on day 5, June 1st was my first day of sobriety after a crazy, crazy weekend. The day to day thing without drinking USUALLY isn't all that difficult for me. I'm a binge drinker...and when the weekend hits is my most difficult time. This is especially the case when I'm on day 5...6...or 7. (early sobriety) SO, here's to remaining strong...staying busy...and enjoying a SOBER life this weekend! Going to the gym and getting a nice long workout is very helpful for me...so i'll be going to the gym tonight after work, sat morning, and sunday morning! I also have lots to do around the house to keep myself occupied. I look forward to getting to know everyone! |
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06-05-2009, 10:32 AM
| #120 (permalink) |
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Welcome Lindsay! I've been spending a lot of my time at the gym and out walking too. It really helps me. Congrats on day 5! That is awesome! I'm also a binge drinker. Weekends aren't a trigger time for me, but it certainly seems to be for most of the other 'Junebugs'. My biggest trigger for drinking is after my therapy session when I feel all raw. Glad you joined us! |
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06-05-2009, 10:46 AM
| #121 (permalink) |
| Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Ohio
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Welcome aboard (((Eddie, Eclipse and Lindsay)))...So happy to see you here Our group is getting bigger and bigger....That is awesome. Come on in and make yourself at home. I'm checking in with day 5 and still feeling just fine. I went for a ride yesterday on my scooter, stopped by the craft store and picked myself up a little treat...I bought some more (beautiful) paper for my cards and some little embellishments. Hubby went with me so we had our therapeutic ride together. He was feeling down in the dumps because he still does not have a job...he keeps putting in applications, but no one is calling him...well, he did receive one phone call this morning from an temp agency and he goes in Monday to finish the paper work but it still doesn't mean he'll get hired. We'll just have to wait and see what happens. I'm still finishing up my Hello Kitty card for my niece...it is turning out so cute. Then I'm going to put a gift card in it...I really think she will like it. That is my day so far....playing in my craft room still! Since the weather is so nice, I just may have to get the scooter out again and run up and buy that gift card...I know, any excuse just so I can ride...LOL! Well, I hope all of my friends are doing well. I'm thinking about you guys...thank you for being here with me, without you...I don't think I could be so strong. Have a wonderful day, I will talk to you later. Hugs and God Bless!!! :ghug XOXO |
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06-05-2009, 10:54 AM
| #122 (permalink) |
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Good morning ADAT! Glad to hear that you're doing well and that you treated yourself to a treat! Day 5! Woo Hoo! I'm hoping it clears up today here soon. I'm thinking I'll walk over to Target again and get myself a little something. I bought 3 little T-Shirts the other day and I love them so much, I want some more. Only $9! Less than a drink! Really, I just like to walk but I have a hard time just going out to walk without a specific goal in mind. Probably need to get over that! Glad your weather is nice! |
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06-05-2009, 11:53 AM
| #123 (permalink) |
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Day 5 nearly over and feeling good. Did some more of my business today in between the showers. Had my first craving while I was out (it was always the way I had a crafty drink) but just got on with it and it was soon forgotten. I NEED to get through this first weekend, as Friday is always my trigger for a binge. I am even thinking of giving the cigs up come Monday when i am back in my full-time job. NOt decided for certain as the times I have tried to stop before I have drank more. Hope you are all well. I think i might be getting on my partners nerves as I am for every putting things away. the house has never been so clean. |
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06-05-2009, 12:29 PM
| #124 (permalink) |
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I know I need to give up the cigs but right now, I'm not going to worry about it. I don't want to overwhelm myself. Right now, soberiety is most important to me. Once I have established new habits, etc., then the cigs will go. One thing at a time for me. Getting to the gym sounds like a good idea. Get those natural endorphins running! Funny, I don't know too may people that get upset about their partner's cleaning. Are you making the bed while she's still in it? lol! |
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06-05-2009, 12:35 PM
| #125 (permalink) | |
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Yeah but I am putting things away she has not used yet. I do not like mess and it seems to annoy me even more when I am sober. | |
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