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Old 06-09-2008, 12:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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You Just Never Know

What will happen from day to day....

My last post was about all the progress that I was making.

Well yesterday I started to feel sick a little...chess pains....etc....breathing started to go out of whack

Last night I thought several times that I was going to have to call the ambulance I was really struggling with my breathing. I did put on my oxygen but even with that I was struggling.

I had a doctors appointment already scheduled for this morning and the Doctor put me back up to 60mg of steroids and back on 3ltrs of oxygen. He said we are going to try and kick this in the butt right now. I also had to take my sis we both have our appointments at the same time and same doctor

She isn't doing good. They called the ambulance from the Doctors office.

She was on the bypath (sp) and just got a call that she isn't breathing on her own and are right now putting her on the ventilator that is what I was on for 8 days straight one time and 3 days the next time. It is a hard thing and the recovery off of that is hard. I don't think that she is going to make it that far though and neither do the Doctors. but the ventilator will keep her alive for a little while so we can all see her one more time

Just a update and yeah we never know from day to day what will happen so that is why we MUST be happy with what we all have right now. Thanks for being here
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:11 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:17 PM   #4 (permalink)
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prayers for you and your sister, for perfect healing now.
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:22 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:31 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I am so sorry to hear this.
It really does make me think that I dont have it bad at all.
All the while I am doing all I can it seems to destroy myself for no reason and there are people like you who are doing everything they can to survive.
Take care and make each moment count.
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Prayers and love going out for you and your sister, Vic.....
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:40 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Vic, Big hugs for you and your sister!

She is lucky to have you with her, at this time.

I hope you feel better.
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:54 PM   #9 (permalink)
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(((Vic))) (((Vic's sis)))
I'm glad you can be there for your sister, and hope you're both feeling better soon.
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Old 06-09-2008, 03:34 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Vic you and your sister will be in my thoughts. Your right you gotta live each day to the fullest and your sobriety is helping you live each day to the fullest. I'm VERY proud of ya. If you need to talk let me know.
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Old 06-09-2008, 03:58 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Vic, you and your sister will be in my prayers tonight. Sending big hugs too, because you're such a wonderful brother.
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Old 06-09-2008, 07:11 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Old 06-09-2008, 07:22 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Thanks for the post, Vic, and the reminder to cherish our very lives. These ARE the good ol' days. Feel better - prayers going up for you and your Sister.
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Vic. Sending prayers for healing and comfort.

Hang in there Brother...
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:02 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Please watch over Vic and his Sister through this time of uncertainty. Let them feel your love now, more than ever. Let them be accepting that whatever happens is in your hands. . . . thy will be done."



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