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angie9 · 10-07-2007, 10:31 PM

I went to the local police station and spoke to victim support and child protection has being alerted and said basically if I dont leave him they will step in so looks like my dessision has being amde for me :0( Im off to see a lawyer and then welfare and I may have to go to a woman refuge as well I dont know what Im spose to really be feeling just at the moment very tired SOBER but tired and sad

Dee74 · 10-07-2007, 10:34 PM

hey Ang...I'm so so sorry it's come to this, but you know - your safety and the kids welfare have to come first.

So proud of you not drinking

D

stone · 10-07-2007, 10:36 PM

(((((Ang))))) Definitely speak to a lawyer right away Ang. I am sorry you are going through this, well done for staying sober too hun.

angie9 · 10-07-2007, 10:45 PM

it hurts dosent it Ive never really expereinced anything like this not nice :0( but I think in my heart I know I have to do it

Dee74 · 10-07-2007, 10:48 PM

Ang

D

angie9 · 10-07-2007, 10:56 PM

aww thanks Dee :0)
Ang

scaredykat · 10-07-2007, 11:30 PM

Hi Angie.

I know the pain your feeling. It is really hard. But Dee is right. You have to do this for your safety and your children. Life will get easier for you again. You'll see. And, I am so proud of you for not drinking. You have a lot of strength and courage in you.
You don't know how proud i am of you. It makes me real happy to see another woman get help.

Barb

***indigo*** · 10-08-2007, 04:01 AM

I am holding you in my thoughts and heart, for peace of mind. Congrats on not picking up.

parentrecovers · 10-08-2007, 07:09 AM

angie, do the next right thing for yourself and your children.

and i am really proud of you for staying sober.

hugs and support, k

Missymae737 · 10-08-2007, 09:48 AM

Hi Ang,

I know it hurts...It particuarly was painful for me because I couldn't fix him...

Just remember, abuse is never justified...

Thinking of you...

NOMOMERLOTMAMMA · 10-08-2007, 10:39 PM

That's good news to hear Angie. You are amazing! Enough crap to deal with and you ARE NOT DRINKING. THAT is admirable.

You rock.

Karen

Alive · 10-09-2007, 04:32 AM

I am glad those kids have such a great mom...There aint no bigger blessing than that..

angie9 · 10-09-2007, 01:06 PM

:0( :0( :0( I went to the lawyers and they said I could get him kicked out basically but he said yes he will go back on his medication and have councelling as I said that he would have to go if he dosent but child protection has warned if I dont do something they will so Im going to ask would they consider him doing this and staying or do I have to kick him out . I spose I better ring welfare too I feel so jumbled at the moment...still sober tho

Dee74 · 10-09-2007, 03:56 PM

hey Ang...sorry it's so hard sweetie....ultimately tho you have to do what *you* think is best for you and the kids....

wish I had better advice

D

angie9 · 10-09-2007, 04:08 PM

cyps says he has to go which means I will lose this computor so that has stressed me more

Alive · 10-09-2007, 04:14 PM

that sucks..a year ago i didn't have a computer of my own....only now i know how much it's needed in support...

i hope you can get one..i've seen here laptops at 150 euros, from the government...hope you can get some computer hun...

love ya..

Dee74 · 10-09-2007, 04:17 PM

gee I'm sorry Ang...and don't stress - maybe something can be worked out about the computer - it's important for you (and I don't mean Trade Me

)

D

parentrecovers · 10-10-2007, 05:53 AM

support and hugs to angie, k

10-07-2007, 10:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
angie9 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gisborne New Zealand Posts: 440	Numb I went to the local police station and spoke to victim support and child protection has being alerted and said basically if I dont leave him they will step in so looks like my dessision has being amde for me :0( Im off to see a lawyer and then welfare and I may have to go to a woman refuge as well I dont know what Im spose to really be feeling just at the moment very tired SOBER but tired and sad

10-07-2007, 10:34 PM	#2 (permalink)
Dee74 ce n'est rien Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: far out. Posts: 9,516	hey Ang...I'm so so sorry it's come to this, but you know - your safety and the kids welfare have to come first. So proud of you not drinking D __________________ Fuelled By Idiocy

10-07-2007, 10:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
stone Guru Stone Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: UK Posts: 12,398	(((((Ang))))) Definitely speak to a lawyer right away Ang. I am sorry you are going through this, well done for staying sober too hun. __________________ . . There is the path of joy and there is the path of pleasure. Pondering on them, the wise (one) chooses the path of joy; the fool takes the path of pleasure. ~Katha Upanishad 1:2:1

10-07-2007, 10:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
Dee74 ce n'est rien Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: far out. Posts: 9,516	Ang D __________________ Fuelled By Idiocy

10-07-2007, 11:30 PM	#7 (permalink)
scaredykat Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Upstate, N.Y. Posts: 3,380 Blog Entries: 5	Hi Angie. I know the pain your feeling. It is really hard. But Dee is right. You have to do this for your safety and your children. Life will get easier for you again. You'll see. And, I am so proud of you for not drinking. You have a lot of strength and courage in you. You don't know how proud i am of you. It makes me real happy to see another woman get help. Barb __________________ One Day at a Time Sobriety Date: Jan 19, 2008

10-07-2007, 10:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
angie9 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gisborne New Zealand Posts: 440	it hurts dosent it Ive never really expereinced anything like this not nice :0( but I think in my heart I know I have to do it

10-07-2007, 10:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
angie9 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gisborne New Zealand Posts: 440	aww thanks Dee :0) Ang

10-08-2007, 04:01 AM	#8 (permalink)
*indigo* Community Greeter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Mid-Life Express Posts: 9,241	I am holding you in my thoughts and heart, for peace of mind. Congrats on not picking up. __________________ When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself." Namasté

10-08-2007, 07:09 AM	#9 (permalink)
parentrecovers to dee or not to dee Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: USA Posts: 12,714	angie, do the next right thing for yourself and your children. and i am really proud of you for staying sober. hugs and support, k __________________

10-08-2007, 09:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
Missymae737 Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Fall River, MA. Posts: 1,527	Hi Ang, I know it hurts...It particuarly was painful for me because I couldn't fix him... Just remember, abuse is never justified... Thinking of you...

10-08-2007, 10:39 PM	#11 (permalink)
NOMOMERLOTMAMMA No more merlot, more mamma Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Hills, Ct Posts: 2,035 Blog Entries: 36	That's good news to hear Angie. You are amazing! Enough crap to deal with and you ARE NOT DRINKING. THAT is admirable. You rock. Karen __________________ But I always think that the best way to know God is to love many things. ~Vincent van Gogh

10-09-2007, 04:32 AM	#12 (permalink)
Alive believer Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Europe Posts: 2,394 Blog Entries: 1	I am glad those kids have such a great mom...There aint no bigger blessing than that.. __________________ the biggest power a being is given is the now. in the now there is will, choice and therefore a power with no boundaries; for what is born from pure love has no seasons, only continuity, then growth. your spirit will tell you the truth. there's a silence within the silence.

10-09-2007, 01:06 PM	#13 (permalink)
angie9 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gisborne New Zealand Posts: 440	:0( :0( :0( I went to the lawyers and they said I could get him kicked out basically but he said yes he will go back on his medication and have councelling as I said that he would have to go if he dosent but child protection has warned if I dont do something they will so Im going to ask would they consider him doing this and staying or do I have to kick him out . I spose I better ring welfare too I feel so jumbled at the moment...still sober tho

10-09-2007, 03:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
Dee74 ce n'est rien Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: far out. Posts: 9,516	hey Ang...sorry it's so hard sweetie....ultimately tho you have to do what you think is best for you and the kids.... wish I had better advice D __________________ Fuelled By Idiocy

10-09-2007, 04:08 PM	#15 (permalink)
angie9 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Gisborne New Zealand Posts: 440	cyps says he has to go which means I will lose this computor so that has stressed me more

10-09-2007, 04:14 PM	#16 (permalink)
Alive believer Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Europe Posts: 2,394 Blog Entries: 1	that sucks..a year ago i didn't have a computer of my own....only now i know how much it's needed in support... i hope you can get one..i've seen here laptops at 150 euros, from the government...hope you can get some computer hun... love ya..

10-09-2007, 04:17 PM	#17 (permalink)
Dee74 ce n'est rien Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: far out. Posts: 9,516	gee I'm sorry Ang...and don't stress - maybe something can be worked out about the computer - it's important for you (and I don't mean Trade Me ) D __________________ Fuelled By Idiocy

10-10-2007, 05:53 AM	#18 (permalink)
parentrecovers to dee or not to dee Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: USA Posts: 12,714	support and hugs to angie, k __________________

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