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Old 05-17-2017, 06:32 AM
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Originally Posted by jsm273 View Post
I'm doing a lot better today. I have to learn to let go of things from the past that I can't control. About 18 months ago I decided to make a change in my life. My brother offered to help and, do me a favor. Instead of looking out for my needs he looked out for his own selfish personal wants instead. This "favor" may now and will cost me a lot of money. Whenever I confront him on, it he just denies and starts yelling so, I cut him off.

He's been trying to make contact with me lately. Whenever he does he tries to lay a guilt trip on me and, make me out to be the bad person. That's it in a nutshell. Like I said I need to let it go but, it's really hard.

I hope all of you have a good sober day. Heartfelt congrats to the celebrants! As for me, I'm in for another day of sobriety.
(((((Jsm)))).

Is this the same brother who put you in the difficult situation lately?
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Canadian Koala View Post
24 more please

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Old 05-17-2017, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted by FormerBeerLover View Post
It's 5:21 AM and I'm in for another sober 24.
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:37 AM
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Originally Posted by PhoenixJ View Post
Some of the posts here have reminder me of how just important it is to focus on today in sobriety. I cannot change yesterday- it is just a memory. Tomorrow has not happened yet- so apart from a bit of an eye to the future 9paying bills, food -etc) my focus has to remain on the here and now- on today.
1952 Wed, 24 more.
Wishing you a peaceful, contented and blessed day, dear PhoenixJ ❤️
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by jsm273 View Post
I agree PJ. I need to get back into today. Otherwise alcohol, bitterness and, worry win. That wouldn't be much of a life.
❤️ Stay close, jsm. ❤️
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted by jsm273 View Post
I agree PJ. I need to get back into today. Otherwise alcohol, bitterness and, worry win. That wouldn't be much of a life.
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:43 AM
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Lyddie - Monday was my Day One and much of it was also due to Mother's Day. Let's do this sobriety thing full bore this time! Next Mother's Day we can wish each other a happy new birthday 🎂
Counting on you to be here next Mother's Day to pass that one year milestone.
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Croutie View Post
Congrats Milestoners!
Another 24 please..
Happy Wednesday everyone!
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted by lyddie View Post
Its back to Day One for me this morning. I let some difficult family stuff - 90 year mother with dementia combined with sibling issues and a weird Mothers Day family dynamic - provide a reason to drink. I lost my center core of strength.

But I am here to request 24 hours of sanity and sobriety please. And thank you all for your help and understanding.
❤️(((lyddie)))❤️

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Old 05-17-2017, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted by abcowboy View Post
“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down.”


6:00am in Alberta. Today is going to be a darn good day not to drink!

Another 24 for me please, and thanks...
Fantastic quote - Amen!!!!!

And another darn good day, indeed!!!!!
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:50 AM
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I will be having 24 more hours of freedom here!
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Originally Posted by tomls View Post
24 more clean and sober hours please.
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted by RedBerryJuniper View Post
Good morning,

Congratulations to Jo and all of our milestoners! How wonderful that we left that life behind forever, one day at a time!

It's a rainy Wednesday.. My thoughts are negative this morning--waking up worrying about possible outcomes of things. It's at least, or more likely that things will turn out very well. What is it about that? It's a big part of alcoholism--worst-case, negative thinking that we feel the need to escape from with a drink. I am so sick of worrying! I don't care if x, y actually happen anymore. It's never as bad as I think. I feel very positive some mornings but sometimes I have to work at it.

What if: all will be well? That is so much easier.

I never want to drink again. But the next 24 will be enough for now! I plan on checking in a lot today.--love the positive vibe here. Thank you for helping me and all of us through these early days.

Have a great day or night,

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It's never as bad as a drink.

THINK POSIITVE - DRAW POSITIVE

Have you read Emmett Fox Around the Year or the Sermon on the Mount? It's all about the power of Positive thinking.
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GOOD Morning Beautiful People!!
GOOOOOOOOD Morning,

BeaYOUtiful Kris
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Kris47 View Post
24 more by the Grace of God.

Congrats to todays Milestoners!!

Congrats to all those choosing sobriety today!!

Prayers for the sick or struggling.

Gonna take a day off today.
Amen!!!!
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Originally Posted by Kris47 View Post
24 more by the Grace of God.

Congrats to todays Milestoners!!

Congrats to all those choosing sobriety today!!

Prayers for the sick or struggling.

Gonna take a day off today.


Rest, Rest, Rest, sweetheart.

Prayers your way.
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Originally Posted by yukonm View Post
Signing up for 24 hours drink and drug free. 8:32am in Jacksonville, FL.

Congratulations to all celebrating milestones today!
❤️ Roar!!!!!!❤️
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:55 AM
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Originally Posted by jsm273 View Post
I'm doing a lot better today. I have to learn to let go of things from the past that I can't control. About 18 months ago I decided to make a change in my life. My brother offered to help and, do me a favor. Instead of looking out for my needs he looked out for his own selfish personal wants instead. This "favor" may now and will cost me a lot of money. Whenever I confront him on, it he just denies and starts yelling so, I cut him off.

He's been trying to make contact with me lately. Whenever he does he tries to lay a guilt trip on me and, make me out to be the bad person. That's it in a nutshell. Like I said I need to let it go but, it's really hard.

I hope all of you have a good sober day. Heartfelt congrats to the celebrants! As for me, I'm in for another day of sobriety.
We all can fall into someone elses trap. Try not to haarbour any resentment as that is just letting someone live rent free in your head. Brother or not............... Just surround yourself with people who lift you up instead of holding you up! We're here for you (((Jsm.))) Live and learn.
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Old 05-17-2017, 06:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Surrender2win View Post
Checking in for another 24... 7:32 a.m. in IL

Hugs all around this morning. Like many of us here, I cannot think of anything but what is happening right now. Nothing too far in advance or I will end up having a major anxiety/panic attack and be right back at failure. Nothing but today. My head is still in a fog, but I know this will pass soon.

Congrats to everyone reaching a milestone today. May we all have a safe and sober day. Much love to all. ❤

Day #3
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