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Old 11-22-2005, 04:29 PM
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I didn't go.

I didn't go to D's funeral. I just couldn't do it. I always go, even though I have a really hard time at them. I don't know why, I just couldn't bring myself to go this time. I will probably regret it later on down the line, I'm not sure.
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Old 11-22-2005, 09:25 PM
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(((Laurie)))
Don't second guess yourself later. You've done what you could do right now. No one can expect more. Your serenity matters too.
Shalom!
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Old 11-22-2005, 09:59 PM
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My mother's aunt would always say to me... Give me flowers now, while I am alive and can enjoy them.
You do that for so many... you give of yourself, while they can benifit from it. You give, they accept what you offer or not...still you give.

You have done your part. Things are in God's hands to do his part now.
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Old 11-23-2005, 01:16 AM
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Seems to me you choose for your own wellbeing and that has to come first.
You did what you could while she was alive, now it's in God's hands.
As far as I can see you did only the right things Laurie, don't be too hard on yourself.

Big ((Hug)) from Nick.
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Old 11-23-2005, 07:48 AM
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(((Laurie))) what Best said!!!
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Old 11-23-2005, 08:48 AM
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Hugs to you Laurie! You did what you needed to do and that's it.
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Old 11-23-2005, 02:14 PM
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Thank you all for the support.

I had myself a little cry fest last night, and did alot of praying. That's all I can do. It's time to move on and focus on those still here accepting help. Including myself.
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