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Susan Day · 11-21-2005, 09:30 AM

What is the best thing for a spouse to do? My husband is addicted to smoking marijuana and drinking alcohol. Should I leave or stay?

justaguy · 11-21-2005, 09:34 AM

if you love him youll stay. if you dont love him....

Gabe · 11-21-2005, 09:35 AM

Hey Susan.
Making the decision to stay or leave is a very personal thing.
I think we need to take our time whenever we are contemplating a life changing decision.
There are lots of folks on the Naranon board who understand what you're going through.
Here's a link: http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/nar-anon/

Susan Day · 11-21-2005, 12:58 PM

I do love him very much, but I am also very mad at him. I am trying to understand what he is going through. I guess I just need to talk with someone about it. My 20 year old stepdaughter lives with us, and she thinks there is nothing wrong with smoking marijuana either. They share the stuff. I love them both, but I just don't understand it.

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11-21-2005, 09:34 AM	#2 (permalink)
justaguy Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: new milford ct Posts: 6	if you love him youll stay. if you dont love him....

11-21-2005, 09:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
Gabe Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 4,955	Hey Susan. Making the decision to stay or leave is a very personal thing. I think we need to take our time whenever we are contemplating a life changing decision. There are lots of folks on the Naranon board who understand what you're going through. Here's a link: http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/nar-anon/

11-21-2005, 12:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
Susan Day Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Trenton, NJ Posts: 8	I do love him very much, but I am also very mad at him. I am trying to understand what he is going through. I guess I just need to talk with someone about it. My 20 year old stepdaughter lives with us, and she thinks there is nothing wrong with smoking marijuana either. They share the stuff. I love them both, but I just don't understand it.

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