Today my sponsor came over and we went over my 4th step to see the exact nature of things...He helped me to see what defect was behind the act..Today I experience Acceptance ,Trust, and Honesty on a new level...I started off with my sex inventory...then my secrets...then moved on to my shame/guilt list...He was taking notes as I was speaking...Then relationships etc.....We spoke for hours...It went well..Im not so special..lol Im not any different than anyone else...I now have some knowledge of my defects...We also seen some assets...wow, I never thought that I had some finer points....Clean