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ksos · 12-26-2003, 05:09 AM

I had a very warm and spiritual holiday--I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with my wife and daughter. My kid was sick so we all stayed in the house, my wife made a very nice meal, and we watched our daughter open up her presents--a microscope, a chemistry set, millions of other things

, and the beat went on.

Christmas Eve was very nice in another way. Although my daughter had a fever, we decided to put her into my wife's bed and she began reading to me. Without thinking, I went beside her and got comfortable and my wife began reading a book and rested her head on my bare feet

What was nice was that, although my wife and I are separated, I felt a sense of family closeness that had been absent for many, many months. I think that we all felt that way. After about a half hour, I sensed that it was time for me to leave her room, although I wasn't asked to. I went to bed that night, thinking about a better New Year and how special it was to have my family for the holiday. I am truly blessed.

I hope everyone had a nice Holiday, too.

2stop · 12-26-2003, 05:43 AM

Oh ksos, your post put a few tears in my eyes...bless you, my friend, I am so very happy you had such a spiritual and blessed holiday with your family.....

Warmes Hugs...........................

Hope your daughter gets to feeling better soon.:redrose

boop64132 · 12-26-2003, 05:46 AM

Ksos,
That sounds like a wonderful way to spend Christmas.
Ever wonder why when we are forced into spending time
together,that it is usually a very pleasant situation?

I hope your daughter is well soon.
Im so glad that it all went well for you!!

ksos · 12-26-2003, 05:47 AM

Thanks, Tammie...

She still has a fever, but no sore throat or any other symptoms. Her grandmother is taking her to the doctor today....

Hope you had a Merry

ksos · 12-26-2003, 05:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by boop64132
Ksos,
That sounds like a wonderful way to spend Christmas.
Ever wonder why when we are forced into spending time
together,that it is usually a very pleasant situation?

:council:

Juls · 12-26-2003, 07:42 AM

Ksos,

I am very happy for you. Your hard work is starting to pay off, and you are reaping some of the rewards now. It will only get better. What a beautiful scenario you painted for us of the three of you reading in bed together. Those kinds of things are my happiest moments.

Juls

Lilya · 12-26-2003, 09:03 AM

Ksos,
I´m happy you had such a lovely Christmas. It´s true what Juls says, you are reaping the rewards of your recovery.

I have a feeling your success is due to the fact that you are not afraid to address your issues, get them into the open and meet your problems head-on.

I hope your daughter gets well soon.

Love and light,

Quote:

Use adversity

Mamabear · 12-26-2003, 04:31 PM

Dear ksos,

What a special moment.
I hope this closeness comes again and again.
how beautiful
(((((peace)))))
Mamabear

woodtick · 12-28-2003, 12:13 AM

Ksos,
I'm very happy for you.

Brent

ksos · 12-28-2003, 04:32 AM

Hi All:

It was a nice holiday, to be sure. And, my daughter did recover from her fever, which was the most important thing.

I appreciate everyone's special wishes and support. Holidays were always tough for me and I was pleasantly surprised that this one went nicely....

Juls · 12-28-2003, 04:52 AM

You deserved it Ksos, you worked hard for it. I'm glad your daughter is better. I know how it is when our little one's or big one's are sick.

Juls

12-26-2003, 05:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
ksos Waiting For Engines Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: brooklyn, new york Posts: 545	My Christmas I had a very warm and spiritual holiday--I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with my wife and daughter. My kid was sick so we all stayed in the house, my wife made a very nice meal, and we watched our daughter open up her presents--a microscope, a chemistry set, millions of other things , and the beat went on. Christmas Eve was very nice in another way. Although my daughter had a fever, we decided to put her into my wife's bed and she began reading to me. Without thinking, I went beside her and got comfortable and my wife began reading a book and rested her head on my bare feet What was nice was that, although my wife and I are separated, I felt a sense of family closeness that had been absent for many, many months. I think that we all felt that way. After about a half hour, I sensed that it was time for me to leave her room, although I wasn't asked to. I went to bed that night, thinking about a better New Year and how special it was to have my family for the holiday. I am truly blessed. I hope everyone had a nice Holiday, too. __________________ Ksos "If Enough people Call You A Duck, You Better Start Quacking."

12-26-2003, 05:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
2stop ~Author of My Life~ Join Date: May 2003 Location: Doing what I thought I couldn't.... Posts: 4,669	Oh ksos, your post put a few tears in my eyes...bless you, my friend, I am so very happy you had such a spiritual and blessed holiday with your family..... Warmes Hugs........................... Hope your daughter gets to feeling better soon.:redrose __________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~

12-26-2003, 05:47 AM	#4 (permalink)
ksos Waiting For Engines Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: brooklyn, new york Posts: 545	Thanks, Tammie... She still has a fever, but no sore throat or any other symptoms. Her grandmother is taking her to the doctor today.... Hope you had a Merry __________________ Ksos "If Enough people Call You A Duck, You Better Start Quacking."

12-26-2003, 07:42 AM	#6 (permalink)
Juls Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: California, USA Posts: 1,101	Ksos, I am very happy for you. Your hard work is starting to pay off, and you are reaping some of the rewards now. It will only get better. What a beautiful scenario you painted for us of the three of you reading in bed together. Those kinds of things are my happiest moments. Juls __________________ Think World Peace

12-26-2003, 04:31 PM	#8 (permalink)
Mamabear Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: phila, pa Posts: 233	Dear ksos, What a special moment. I hope this closeness comes again and again. how beautiful (((((peace))))) Mamabear __________________ Mamabear

12-26-2003, 05:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
boop64132 Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Kansas City,Mo Posts: 478	Ksos, That sounds like a wonderful way to spend Christmas. Ever wonder why when we are forced into spending time together,that it is usually a very pleasant situation? I hope your daughter is well soon. Im so glad that it all went well for you!!

12-28-2003, 12:13 AM	#9 (permalink)
woodtick Do not add alcohol Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Duluth, Mn Posts: 157	Ksos, I'm very happy for you. Brent __________________ -Brent woodtick: A nick-name small town people of northern Minnesota call each other in jest. "The media sells it and you live the role" -Ozzy Osbourne

12-28-2003, 04:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
ksos Waiting For Engines Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: brooklyn, new york Posts: 545	Hi All: It was a nice holiday, to be sure. And, my daughter did recover from her fever, which was the most important thing. I appreciate everyone's special wishes and support. Holidays were always tough for me and I was pleasantly surprised that this one went nicely.... __________________ Ksos "If Enough people Call You A Duck, You Better Start Quacking."

12-28-2003, 04:52 AM	#11 (permalink)
Juls Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: California, USA Posts: 1,101	You deserved it Ksos, you worked hard for it. I'm glad your daughter is better. I know how it is when our little one's or big one's are sick. Juls __________________ Think World Peace

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