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prettywoman · 05-01-2003, 12:45 PM

my babies are du around September 12-14 of this year. What really bothers me that he blames all of this on me. He thinks that everything that comes out of my mouth is a lie, that I can't understand. He told me once to not speak to anyone in his family and I had such a nice relationship. They don't even call me just to even ask how we are. Has he manipulated everyone in believing I am some psycho? Am I a psycho for not wanting ot be abused? I don't think so. Has anyone experienced the same thing ? Why does he tell people this lie about me ? for what reason ?

phoenix · 05-04-2003, 05:38 PM

Hi...I'm afraid I don't have many answers,but I just spotted your post and didn't want you to feel alone.There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be abused.Abusive people blame the victim because it's easier than looking at their own faults.And they use isolation...cutting off your ties to family and friends...to assure that they can continue the abuse.

You deserve a good and happy life.Please keep posting...we care.

phoenix

05-01-2003, 12:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
prettywoman Paused Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 178	hello my babies are du around September 12-14 of this year. What really bothers me that he blames all of this on me. He thinks that everything that comes out of my mouth is a lie, that I can't understand. He told me once to not speak to anyone in his family and I had such a nice relationship. They don't even call me just to even ask how we are. Has he manipulated everyone in believing I am some psycho? Am I a psycho for not wanting ot be abused? I don't think so. Has anyone experienced the same thing ? Why does he tell people this lie about me ? for what reason ?

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05-04-2003, 05:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
phoenix Paused Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Dreaming Summer Posts: 807	Hi...I'm afraid I don't have many answers,but I just spotted your post and didn't want you to feel alone.There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be abused.Abusive people blame the victim because it's easier than looking at their own faults.And they use isolation...cutting off your ties to family and friends...to assure that they can continue the abuse. You deserve a good and happy life.Please keep posting...we care. phoenix

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