I am 172 days sober married we both are Healthcare professionals she does not drink, but has depression issues throughout her life. I use to drink because of her depression the only thing that eased my concerns for her well being, Know I deal with it sober much better situation when sheis in one of her poor pitty me moods. Plus I have three daughters also Guy's I am doomed to female hormone swings for life. I know that I cannot drink or take precription drugs to numb the pain of why do women act like this. We have accomplished many goals as a couple and family we are going to attend counceling again to work on her depression, and how to keep her from blowing up, and then regreting it the next day. She also stopped taking her zoloft 2 months ago. I will let a third party tell her she might need to start taking it again. She knows that I put up with alot when she is in one of her "funks". She does make up with me in time, again because of the grace of god I can honestly live with my faults and accept hers also as the Family afterward states. Thank the lord for AA and sponsers