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Old 10-29-2004, 02:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Optimism

It is senseless to speak of optimism or pessimism. The only important thing to remember is that if one works well in a potato field, the potatoes will grow. If one works well among men, they will grow. That's reality. The rest is smoke.
--Danilo Dolci


We can get so mired in our pessimism and negativity! What is the point in it? We even get committed to our pessimism, and we challenge the world - or God - to give us reason for hope. In our pessimism, we don't notice we have chosen a negative place to stand. Recovery means loosening our grip on negativism. We are then free to do the work we need to do. We can slowly take the risk of believing that positive things will happen too.

Any man can see the results in his own life. When we work well at this program, when we are faithful to it, we do grow. We see this truth in one another's lives. The work is not always easy. We sometimes wish to avoid it or find a reason to not even try. But there is no doubt, when we look around us, that the effort is rewarded with fulfilling lives.

God, please remove pessimism from me so I may continue my work.
 
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Old 10-29-2004, 03:07 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Not trying to be funny here

I am wondering what is going to happen in Boston.
86 years of flipping back and forth between optimism and pessimism.
Season start and we all become optimistic that this will be the year for the Red Sox. Near season's end and so many of us start to feel that pessimistic chant come alive inside.

With Boston winning the world series... we will be in shock when next year's season starts? Will be a whole new learning curve to deal with I think.

Still it goes to show... remain optimistic long enough and you do get your reward.
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