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Old 07-09-2017, 03:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Anyone noticed?


Anyone noticed improvements in the downstairs department when sober for a while?

I accidentally posted this in the newcomers forum
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Old 07-09-2017, 06:06 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 07-09-2017, 06:26 PM   #3 (permalink)
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This is a small forum, and it's a weekend - you might have to wait a day or two for replies

What do you mean by improvements? libido?

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Old 07-10-2017, 12:32 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Maybe its just stress but for the last month or two the morning awakening doesn't seem to be happening, it's not an ego thing or anything just concerning me a tad bit.
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Old 07-10-2017, 01:12 AM   #5 (permalink)
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wait til you hit 50

Seriously tho, I think you've had a lot on your mind, been very anxious, going through withdrawal...

I drank for years - it took a while for me to feel Ok again.

I'm sure this is not the best things are going to get - but if you're concerned you can always see your Dr

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Old 07-10-2017, 01:30 AM   #6 (permalink)
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31 and already going downhill lol

But yeah I think it's stress and anxiety, I have to remind myself that it's only been 3 weeks without booze, things will take time to even out.
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Ain't that the truth!

Please, give it time, especially if you're dealing with stress and anxiety on top of recovery. There are many more things to focus on now and when your libido and drive does return it'll be worth the wait.
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I dont have a wife and sex outside of marriage is against my faith but when im having alone times it's just difficult to achieve, and it actually makes me anxious, sorry to be TOO graphic.

I hope and think in time this will level out!
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I actually get anxiety when I "reach the summit"

I think my nervous system is shot.....goona speak to dr about this, thanks for the replies everyone.
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31 and already going downhill lol

But yeah I think it's stress and anxiety, I have to remind myself that it's only been 3 weeks without booze, things will take time to even out.
Congrats on your newly found sobriety.

I got sober when I was 31 years old, too.
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Congrats on your newly found sobriety.

I got sober when I was 31 years old, too.
Thanks,.I got to a place where the only option was to quit, wish I had done it sooner tho.
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Look at it this way Chilled - if we're right everything will be ok - if we're not right you can see a Dr and everything will be ok

stop worrying man

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