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10-19-2009, 03:17 PM
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| Member  Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Costa Mesa, CA
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|  Sex in the first year?
What are your opinions? I'm not talking about a relationship, but just like a one night stand.
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10-19-2009, 10:57 PM
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I don't see a problem with it, as long as it isn't substance induced, and you use protection. Also helps if there is a mutual understanding that its not going to proceed further than a one-time deal. Just my 2 cents. 
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10-23-2009, 10:33 AM
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"Would you consider that a healthy choice? How do you feel about that?" Thats right. Its about change. Not using or not using.
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10-23-2009, 10:56 AM
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be honest don't harm others don't drink who and what you do is your own business who and what you harm isn't simple read page 69 and the next few pages in the BB whether you do AA or not, good sound advice about sex there If the two of you need your ashes hauled and it's clearly understood that's what that is, what the two of you do is your own business, not anyone else's, however, every time you sleep with her after that one time you are taking out an emotional "chit" that you WILL pay for at some point. a woman with 25 years of sobriety gave me those tidbits nearly 20 years ago when I was new
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10-23-2009, 11:07 AM
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PS taking advantage of an emotionally vulnerable female newcomer falls under the category of harming others
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11-05-2009, 12:21 PM
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Just use protection. Joe |
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11-05-2009, 12:57 PM
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Don't 13th step! Huntsober has a great name for this thread! Ago has timeless wisdom. As you continue grow in sobriety, your 13 th step will be something you will amend. Your sexuality is your business, as long as there is a real meeting of minds no worries. My issue is with a newcomer where there is no mind to meet.
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