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07-29-2009, 05:58 PM
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| SHARING THE LOAD  |  on the hunt
Alright dudes, I turn a year Aug.2nd and have taken the no sex suggestion to heart. However, while doing my fourth step sex inventory I realized that a lack of assertiveness and honesty about my attraction with women was a cause of much frustration and tension. In other words I have been really missing out in my sex life. I am raring to go now that I have a proper sex ideal lined out. This includes that all sex is good and the more the better as long as I am honest about it at the get go. Any suggestions or warnings or blessings?
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07-29-2009, 07:40 PM
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Rather than typing it all out again, here's a couple threads you can read.... http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ing-rooms.html (Dating in the rooms) http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-recovery.html (Relationship In Early Recovery) Sure, you have my blessings and I'll be cheering you on. Just don't drink over it if it doesn't work out like you dreamed 
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07-30-2009, 01:56 AM
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07-30-2009, 07:28 AM
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Good luck mate, go get em
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07-30-2009, 11:23 AM
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"To sum up about sex: We earnestly pray for the right ideal, for guidance in each questionable situation, for sanity, and for the strength to do the right thing." AA BB, Ch5, 1st Ed. Ask the question, "Is it selfish or not?" before engaging in any relationship. Oh, and the byline in your avatar takes on a whole new meaning as regards this. |
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09-12-2009, 04:55 AM
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Keep plugging away (so to speak)  mate
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09-20-2009, 08:16 PM
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Some women just want a 'buddy', some want to play the field, some want just to date one person. Just be honest and yourself! |
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