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10-24-2007, 10:48 PM
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| Member  Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Oklahoma
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| is it just sex
I am in a little predicament, I work with a lady which we had a fling awhile back, I am not attracted to her one bit but I know I can have sex with her at any time, she was suppose to come over tonight but I called her and said that I was sick, when in reality I just didnt want to be with her and I dont want to be with her. Since we work together how am I suppose to be around her? I dont want to be mean to her but I dont want to lead her on anymore.
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10-25-2007, 01:08 AM
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| Thy will, not mine  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Lenexa, KS
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What did your sponsor say? If it feels wrong don't do it. Someone usually gets hurt in those situations. I am responsible for my actions, and my thoughts are for my entertainment only(well ok my sponser like it when I share them with him).
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10-25-2007, 08:57 AM
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| Don't get undies in a bunch  Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: South Shore MA
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Amends and truth.
__________________ * I asked God to spare me pain. God said "No", Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.  Recovery Related Acronym B. E. S. T. = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today? |
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10-27-2007, 02:50 AM
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| Member  Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Australia
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I m learning in my experience at the moment to honour my feelings, to surrender to the inner pull of my HP and also to use the steps. i once heard if in doubt dont. easy does it and say what you mean but dont be mean when u say it...above all for me its one day at a time. ...the sooner i face things i dont want to face but know that i must deal with or make amends with,,,i will feel lighter and happier and be able to move on with my life. amen
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11-04-2007, 06:38 AM
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| Member  Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: S.E. Mich.
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I know its been a few days since this started. Simply let her know that kind of relationship isn't what your after, isn't good for you, isn't comfortable for you, etc. Don't make it about her. It's about you and how you feel.
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