24 things a woman should never appoligize for - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

WLDKATZ · 12-10-2007, 06:15 PM

Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want.

Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't mean you have to speak Ebonics.

Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn't work out.

Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level.

Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.

Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are.

Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap.

Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.

Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.

Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.

Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not get married.

Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.

Never apologize for saying NO.

Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought it so it's yours.

Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason she's been your girl from day one.

Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert.

Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your brothas.

Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a queen.

Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. (Right Girl!)

Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style.

Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your prerogative.

Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if others don't agree. You have to live with the consequences not them.

Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and you deserve to get paid.

Never apologize for being you!
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD"
ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK

WLDKATZ · 12-26-2007, 04:53 PM

I still read this every day

**Astro** · 12-26-2007, 08:33 PM

You rock Pam!

Good to see you posting again, have missed you much!

And these are all so true!

WLDKATZ · 12-26-2007, 08:48 PM

Thank You Astro my Friend I have missed you all so much ( HUGS) and thank you!

Taking5 · 12-26-2007, 09:13 PM

Hey, in all honesty a lot of these apply to men as well, but the crying part I would have a problem with.

On keeping the ring, depending on the state you are in and the reason the wedding never happened, the ring may have to be legally returned:

Engagement Ring Laws

**Ann** · 12-29-2007, 04:08 AM

Somehow I missed this in the Christmas rush, but it's a keeper and something I need to read often, Katz.

Thanks for the wise words.

Hugs

frstnm · 12-29-2007, 04:29 AM

Keeping it real doesn't mean you have to speak Ebonics

hear hear !!

ccgirl2 · 12-29-2007, 05:23 AM

That was wonderful. I am a cryer and I never apologize for it. It feels wonderful to let it go sometimes.

WLDKATZ · 02-17-2008, 06:02 AM

I sware there should be more Rules on this list but too brain fried to deal with them but CC I am with you!!!

WLDKATZ · 02-17-2008, 10:08 AM

the fact that there isnt polish on your toes!!!!!!!!!!!

WLDKATZ · 02-18-2008, 08:23 AM

OMGGGGGGGGGGGG
CANNOT BREATH
MEN THIS ONE IS FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I Will not Apologize for Being a*Man - Mens Guide Journal - Men's Guide to Women

WLDKATZ · 03-07-2009, 02:42 PM

sorry BUT THAT WAS FUNNY AS HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

and it bares repeating.............LOL

12-10-2007, 06:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	24 things a woman should never appoligize for Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't mean you have to speak Ebonics. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn't work out. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap. Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority. Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not get married. Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves. Never apologize for saying NO. Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought it so it's yours. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason she's been your girl from day one. Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your brothas. Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a queen. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. (Right Girl!) Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style. Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your prerogative. Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if others don't agree. You have to live with the consequences not them. Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and you deserve to get paid. Never apologize for being you! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD" ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

12-26-2007, 04:53 PM	#2 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	I still read this every day __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

12-26-2007, 08:33 PM	#3 (permalink)
Astro Forum Leader Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Scottsdale, AZ, one big happy dysfunctional family! Posts: 12,768	You rock Pam! Good to see you posting again, have missed you much! And these are all so true! __________________ "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty, and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming---WOW-What a ride!"

12-26-2007, 08:48 PM	#4 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	Thank You Astro my Friend I have missed you all so much ( HUGS) and thank you! __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

12-26-2007, 09:13 PM	#5 (permalink)
Taking5 Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: LA - Lower Alabama Posts: 4,244	Hey, in all honesty a lot of these apply to men as well, but the crying part I would have a problem with. On keeping the ring, depending on the state you are in and the reason the wedding never happened, the ring may have to be legally returned: Engagement Ring Laws __________________ It is easier to practice total abstinence than perfect moderation _______________________________________ Any quotes from the big book of AA are from the first edition, or are otherwise exempt from copyright infringement under the "fair use doctrine".

12-29-2007, 04:08 AM	#6 (permalink)
Ann Forum Leader Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: By The Lake Posts: 29,802	Somehow I missed this in the Christmas rush, but it's a keeper and something I need to read often, Katz. Thanks for the wise words. Hugs __________________ Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky. ~Tagore

12-29-2007, 04:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
frstnm Im not crazy and neither am I Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: My place in (M)Assachusetts Posts: 2,088	Keeping it real doesn't mean you have to speak Ebonics hear hear !!

12-29-2007, 05:23 AM	#8 (permalink)
ccgirl2 Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: cape cod Posts: 2,320	That was wonderful. I am a cryer and I never apologize for it. It feels wonderful to let it go sometimes.

02-17-2008, 06:02 AM	#9 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	I sware there should be more Rules on this list but too brain fried to deal with them but CC I am with you!!! __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

02-17-2008, 10:08 AM	#10 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	the fact that there isnt polish on your toes!!!!!!!!!!! __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

02-18-2008, 08:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	OMGGGGGGGGGGGG CANNOT BREATH MEN THIS ONE IS FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Will not Apologize for Being a*Man - Mens Guide Journal - Men's Guide to Women __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

03-07-2009, 02:42 PM	#12 (permalink)
WLDKATZ Hell on Wheels Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Flint MI Posts: 4,455	sorry BUT THAT WAS FUNNY AS HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL and it bares repeating.............LOL __________________ Good Better best never let it rest until you kick the dog shi! out of the looser!!!!!!!!!

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