Never get pulled in WV.... - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

gollywog · 01-12-2007, 06:49 PM

As anyone met a guy on line (yes, I'm marginally embarassed, so drop it), fell in love, drove 8hrs one way to visit him, every 3 weeks, taken off work...only to get 2 DUI's, within 2 weeks, there and back, 2 seperate trips, and then he breaks up with you, only 3 days after he told you he loves you...and the reason he split is b/c he told you he "wanted to know everything", so you trusted him, told him of your scetchy past, PAST mind you, and then he tells you over the phone that sex between you could never be meaningful (for me, that is) and he "wants to end it"? What the ****? If that's not enough to make you want to either, jump off a cliff, get drunk, and/or seriously consider NOT paying him back the $530 he spent to get you out of jail with the 1st DUI, I don't know what is.

OK, enough bitching. Seriously though...I'm sad, depressed, and ready to drink, smoke whatever. It's all I can do to keep positive...sometimes I want to say **** AA, **** RECOVERY, AND **** THE HAPPY MOTHER ****ERS WHO SEEM TO HAVE IT GOOD. But I don't..."I know life will get better...stay positive..."

**** it...does anyone hear me?

freshstart · 01-12-2007, 07:22 PM

Golly. We hear you. Sounds like you need to vent. We are good at listening to said vents. I'm so sorry you've had a rough time of it. Don't get hung up on it though. He obviously wasn't the type you want in your life. If you can't trust him with exactly what he asked you to tell him, then IMHO he isn't worth it. It's very easy for me to say here from the outside looking in of course but either way please don't let it make you feel like jumping off of a cliff or anything like that. I understand the angry feelings. I understand wanting to yell but don't do anything you can't take back. You can fix most anything but don't let someone like that make you feel like you this. Stick around here. Read some of the other posts. You have a niche here. Find it. We all do. I'm glad you posted and hope you continue to.

scootinbabe · 01-12-2007, 10:07 PM

i hear you! you may want to post this over in newcomers or womens forums to get more feedback.

hang in there.

wow! he lent you $500 plus and then tells you he doesn't love you? honey, you deserve a smarter man than that! ;-)

barb dwyer · 01-13-2007, 12:19 AM

... usually winds up COSTING me $500.00 to get told that ...

I'mready99 · 01-13-2007, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by barb dwyer

... usually winds up COSTING me $500.00 to get told that ...

ccgirl · 01-13-2007, 06:11 AM

If you do all those self destructive things you want to do, he wins. Plus they won't make you feel good after a while. You know it; just keep reminding yourself.

01-12-2007, 06:49 PM	#1 (permalink)
gollywog Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Carrboro, NC Posts: 1	Never get pulled in WV.... As anyone met a guy on line (yes, I'm marginally embarassed, so drop it), fell in love, drove 8hrs one way to visit him, every 3 weeks, taken off work...only to get 2 DUI's, within 2 weeks, there and back, 2 seperate trips, and then he breaks up with you, only 3 days after he told you he loves you...and the reason he split is b/c he told you he "wanted to know everything", so you trusted him, told him of your scetchy past, PAST mind you, and then he tells you over the phone that sex between you could never be meaningful (for me, that is) and he "wants to end it"? What the **? If that's not enough to make you want to either, jump off a cliff, get drunk, and/or seriously consider NOT paying him back the $530 he spent to get you out of jail with the 1st DUI, I don't know what is. OK, enough bitching. Seriously though...I'm sad, depressed, and ready to drink, smoke whatever. It's all I can do to keep positive...sometimes I want to say AA, RECOVERY, AND THE HAPPY MOTHER ERS WHO SEEM TO HAVE IT GOOD. But I don't..."I know life will get better...stay positive..." ** it...does anyone hear me?

01-13-2007, 12:19 AM	#4 (permalink)
barb dwyer same planet...different world Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: butte mt Posts: 10,933 Blog Entries: 7	... usually winds up COSTING me $500.00 to get told that ... __________________ Knowledge is knowing that tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in fruit salad.

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01-12-2007, 07:22 PM	#2 (permalink)
freshstart Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: nowhere US Posts: 179	Golly. We hear you. Sounds like you need to vent. We are good at listening to said vents. I'm so sorry you've had a rough time of it. Don't get hung up on it though. He obviously wasn't the type you want in your life. If you can't trust him with exactly what he asked you to tell him, then IMHO he isn't worth it. It's very easy for me to say here from the outside looking in of course but either way please don't let it make you feel like jumping off of a cliff or anything like that. I understand the angry feelings. I understand wanting to yell but don't do anything you can't take back. You can fix most anything but don't let someone like that make you feel like you this. Stick around here. Read some of the other posts. You have a niche here. Find it. We all do. I'm glad you posted and hope you continue to.

01-12-2007, 10:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
scootinbabe Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: road to recovery Posts: 1,687 Blog Entries: 5	i hear you! you may want to post this over in newcomers or womens forums to get more feedback. hang in there. wow! he lent you $500 plus and then tells you he doesn't love you? honey, you deserve a smarter man than that! ;-)

01-13-2007, 06:11 AM	#6 (permalink)
ccgirl Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Harwich, MA Posts: 2,749	If you do all those self destructive things you want to do, he wins. Plus they won't make you feel good after a while. You know it; just keep reminding yourself.

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