I've learned...

[S-ROD]

I just got this email from an old friend that has no idea what i have been going through...sometimes people just know that something is wrong. I just wanted to share it with all of you. These are so true for the people in recovery. Because we do learn a lot of stuff after all we have lived through. Hope you enjoy.

>I've learned....
>That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end,
>the
>faster it goes.

>>I've learned....
>That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for

>I've learned....
>That money doesn't buy class.

>I've learned....
>That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

>I've learned...
>That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and
>loved.

>I've learned....
>That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

>I've learned....
>That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

>I've learned....
>That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that
>person continue to hurt you.

>I've learned...
>That love, not time, heals all wounds.

>I've learned...
>That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with
>people smarter than I am.

>I've learned....
>That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

>I've learned....
>That there's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling
>their breath on your cheeks.


>I've learned...
>That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

>I've learned....
>That life is tough, but I'm tougher.

>I'v e learned...
>That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

>I've learned....
>That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
>

>I've learned...
>That I wish I could have told those I cared about that I love them one more
>time before they passed away.

>I've learned....
>That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he
>may
>have to eat them.

>I've learned....
>That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

>I've learned....
>That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

>I've learned...
>That when your newly born child holds your little finger in his little
>fist,
>that you're hooked for life.

>I've learned....
>That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness
>and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

>I've learned ...
>That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is
>requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

>I've learned....
>That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done

[mew2]

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you.

All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts


I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.


I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.


I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.


I'VE LEARNED THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO SEE SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM.