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Old 11-04-2007, 03:46 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Caroline

One of my dearest friends died on Friday evening peacefully at home in the arms of her beloved husband Paul. I have no words except to say that Caroline was one of the gentlest of souls that I have happened upon in my life. She was love itself, I celebrate her life here. Please pray for Paul her wonderful husband and their daughter and four grandchildren. Caroline is irreplaceable, yet she will always be with me close to my heart. Caroline you will always be with us, everyone whose lives you touched had their own lives enriched, by simply being in your shining company. I will always love you.

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Then Almitra spoke, saying, "We would ask now of Death."

And he said:

You would know the secret of death.

But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?

The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.

If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.

For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.

In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;

And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.

Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.

Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour.

Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?

Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?

For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?

And what is to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?

Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.

And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.

And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.



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Old 11-04-2007, 03:51 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm sorry you've lost such a wonderful friend indie. She's happy, joyous and free now, I'll pray for her husband Paul and you.
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Old 11-04-2007, 05:50 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Dear sis...a remembrance candle burning for Caroline today and, one for Paul, for hope,love and comfort....as well as one for a grieving friend. Love you


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Old 11-10-2007, 11:29 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Take time to grieve
Give grief the space that it needs....and

The angel will cradle you and your love with
infidelity..........
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I am very sorry for your loss.

Please be kind to yourself.
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