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Old 11-29-2006, 02:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Backwards gratitude...

My grats are warped- backwards...
I am greatful that my little girl lost is incarcerated and is not in the position to let her demon take over;
I am greatful that, even though I could bond her out I have turned a deaf ear to her plea's (mommy please get me out of here) even though it breaks my heart to do so...
I am greatful that her attorney is looking out for her best interest, not just her interest...
I am greatful that, even though it tramples all over her rights, her paperwork got 'messed up' and she has a few extra days to dry out before she is ROR (released on recog)
I am greatful that I woke up strong enough today to say no to my child (it may actually save her life and her future)
I am also greatful to have found this site.
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Old 11-29-2006, 03:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I am grateful seeing a mom with such wonderful recovery and strength.
Your gratitude is in the right direction.
Good going Mom.
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Old 11-29-2006, 03:07 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I would rather have her alive to hate me (this will pass) then dead...
Thank you for the encouragement.
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Old 11-29-2006, 04:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Welcome Hopeful Still...

I am Grateful that you are not enabling your daughter to continue her path of destruction...

Hopefully one day she will thank you for it...

Keep up the good work...

One day at a time.

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Old 11-30-2006, 01:27 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm greatful to read a post from a mother who is willing to do whatever it takes ... even when it hurts.

thanks!
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Old 12-01-2006, 03:17 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I am beginning to understand the concept of tough love. It is as tough on the bestower as it is on whom it is bestowed.

Rough day yesterday. I miss my kid.... but... the kid I miss still isn't in that skin.....sigh
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