Help - difference between user and addict?
IsItAlright
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Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: rainbow
Posts: 157
God... Sorry for disappointing u all with all your support... I just called him as he's moving out of this continent tomorrow.
As all we could expect, he said I was nut case and psycho. These words are all I got afterall... He said everyone he talked to all said that I was nut case no matter what he has done to me.
Of course, guess u all know, All the people he has talked to are cocaine users.
Fine. File is closed. I have nth to miss about.
As all we could expect, he said I was nut case and psycho. These words are all I got afterall... He said everyone he talked to all said that I was nut case no matter what he has done to me.
Of course, guess u all know, All the people he has talked to are cocaine users.
Fine. File is closed. I have nth to miss about.
Belgian Sheepdog Adictee
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: In Today
Posts: 6,101
Ah yes the Blame Missle.
I do believe that every practicing A has a full arsenal of these.
You are NOT psycho, nor a nut case.
Now please move forward for YOU.
We still walk with you in spirit.
Love and hugs,
I do believe that every practicing A has a full arsenal of these.
You are NOT psycho, nor a nut case.
Now please move forward for YOU.
We still walk with you in spirit.
Love and hugs,
IsItAlright
Thread Starter
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: rainbow
Posts: 157
He's on plane now and gone for good...
I'm crying in bed... As I'm typing here... I recall that he'd say that I enjoy acting like a victim...
Rational thinking, I know that I'm silly crying here as I'm the one who have human emotion but he's not capable to feel anything under the influence. I'm such a loser that I clicked into Instagram and saw all the pics he uploaded past few nites. Out binge drinking everynight. Now, just get on plane after the binge till last min. I saw the drunk pics in the public park taken at 6:30am.
I'm crying in bed... As I'm typing here... I recall that he'd say that I enjoy acting like a victim...
Rational thinking, I know that I'm silly crying here as I'm the one who have human emotion but he's not capable to feel anything under the influence. I'm such a loser that I clicked into Instagram and saw all the pics he uploaded past few nites. Out binge drinking everynight. Now, just get on plane after the binge till last min. I saw the drunk pics in the public park taken at 6:30am.
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Dallas TX
Posts: 2,282
You deserve better,Wing.
But you hit the nail on the head.We feel pain,suffering,doubt,
worry,and concern.They feel nothing.
Great relationships are 50/50.....and they can survive for periods at
ratios of up to 90/10 for short periods (as long as they balance out
eventually!)
Addiction is 100/0......all the time.....with only 'hope' for a better tomorrow
(that NEVER comes)
....not enough,for any emotionally healthy person.
But you hit the nail on the head.We feel pain,suffering,doubt,
worry,and concern.They feel nothing.
Great relationships are 50/50.....and they can survive for periods at
ratios of up to 90/10 for short periods (as long as they balance out
eventually!)
Addiction is 100/0......all the time.....with only 'hope' for a better tomorrow
(that NEVER comes)
....not enough,for any emotionally healthy person.
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